Hes leaving me hes fuckin leaving me :'(

Discussion in 'Teen Pregnancy' started by trashit, Dec 18, 2009.

  1. trashit

    trashit Guest

    2 months before dexter arrives, the time when i need him here the most and hes decided to leave. A WEEK BEFORE CHRISTMAS. im so devastated i cant actually believe im writing this.. Im just totally monged out. I dont know what to say or do. Hes already organised somewhere else to live a job transport for his things and he only told me yesterday that he was thinkin about goin to work somewhere else now hes actually just going.. How can he do this :cry: what have i done to deserve this??
     
  2. Mummy.To.Be

    Mummy.To.Be Guest

    Oh babe :hugs:
    I really dont know what to say...

    Everything happens for a reason.
    Like you, he's probably scared too!
    Speak to him and see how he's feeling.

    Even if you're not together when Dexter
    arrives, you'll be just as much of a good
    mummy with or without OH.

    Best of luck babe

    xXx
     
  3. skippy

    skippy Got my furbabies :)

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    dunno what to say but didn't wanna read and run:hugs:
     
  4. KrisKitten

    KrisKitten Well-Known Member

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    Thats so awful, im so sorry :(
    :hugs::hugs:
    If i eva need to chat feel free to PM me
    wish there was summit i could do :hugs::hugs::hugs: xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
     
  5. jenny_wren

    jenny_wren Queen Spammatha

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    that is awful
    massive hugs to you hun :hugs:
     
  6. QuintinsMommy

    QuintinsMommy Well-Known Member

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    Its okay hun, just think about you and your baby
    he might just be scared.
    <3
     
  7. Love Bunny

    Love Bunny Guest

    Awww hunni :'(

    :hugs:

    Has he given you ANY reason whatsoever??? :wacko:

    Men are strange creatures hun!! Like its been said - he's probably just scared and christmas is a stressful time :nope:

    xxxxxx
     
  8. booflebump

    booflebump Mummy to Toby

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  9. im_mi

    im_mi Crunchy mama!

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    so sorry sweetheart :( be strong ok? xxxxx
     
  10. summerarmahni

    summerarmahni summer and bailey

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    be strong for you and ya lil man (i no easier sed then done)keep ya chin up bbz xx
     
  11. 05wilkesm

    05wilkesm Guest

    Aww didn't wanna read and run hun,
    But maybe hes just scared of the responsibilites you never know he may be back soon,
    Just stay strong for your little bubba
    :hugs:
    xx
     
  12. Sophiiee-ox-

    Sophiiee-ox- Lyla's Mummy (:

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    :hugs:
    hope your okay hun
    xxx
     
  13. xforuiholdonx

    xforuiholdonx Momma to Emma and Coltin!

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    Aww hun, Im so sorry. As the other ladies have said maybe he's just a little topsy turby because of stress, or maybe hes scared and the only thing he thinks he can do is run. If not, then just stay strong for yourself, and your son because he needs to, especially now. Some day and somewhere there will be someone who is man enough to help you raise your child and love you and that regardless of the fact that you are and were a teen mother. Try and stay positive though I know its extremely hard. Sending my best<3.
     
  14. shelx

    shelx Mummy to 2 gorgeous boys

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    i read your other thread! do u mean leaving you for good? or doing what yous were suggesting and just that he would move away?? hope your ok!!!! xxx
     
  15. annawrigley

    annawrigley Guest

    im sorry, you havent done anything to deserve it, dont go down that path he is solely to blame :hugs: my OH left me too about a month ago and it gets easier, i didnt think id cope at first and like you i blamed myself.
    think of the positives :hugs:
    your beautiful boy will be here before you know it.
    hes probably just a coward.
    come join us in STM if you havent already
    xx
     
  16. trashit

    trashit Guest

    Thanks girls :hugs: im not sure whats goin on right now ill update you xo
     
  17. annawrigley

    annawrigley Guest

    :thumbup: whatever happens you will pull through just remember that :hugs: xx
     
  18. Hannah :)

    Hannah :) Pregnant with #3!

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    Oh babe :(
    Thats so fucked up! I really wonder what goes on in the male brain sometimes. God only knows what their thinking!
    You must be so angry.
    Asif his got it all planned out aswell! :growlmad:

    All i can offer you is a big fat hug :hugs:

    HIS the one thats missing out! Not you. I can garentee that he'll come crawling back soon enough. His probably just scared but then again who isnt when their about to have a baby?

    I hope your feeling better soon hun, i know its easyer said than done though :( We're all here for you :flower:

    xxx
     
  19. chin up, men are all just... well you know.
    apart from out lil men :D
     
  20. Zebra Stars

    Zebra Stars 3RD Trimester

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    he sounds a idiot he duznt no what hes missing
    :hugs:
     

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