Hi all my name is Rach I'm 35 and as we speak I am going through a miscarriage . The pregnancy was not planned and I had in fact been for an appointment to be sterilized 4 days before I found out. Although I was on contraception I had still fallen pregnant and even though it was not planned me and dh had decided we would have the baby. Well obviously that isn't going to happen now as I am miscarrying but the problem is now I don't know what I am going to do next. My dh and I have agreed that I am not having sterilization op as I had to have some very invasive tests and feel that may have contibuted to mc. But now I am worried I will crave another child not to make up for this but as I had got used to the idea of having another child.