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I am so upset and angry right now. I really need to talk to someone. I feel like I am going/gone mad....
i had my first baby and she is 5 now.. but going pregnant was a bit of a shock to me cos i went through a hard time have d first one and gave birth through ceserian....

So understandably I have been VERY emotional. Flying off the handle fairly easily, unreasonable at times and also hitting my hubby..

I am so low right now. I am trying to control my temper, but me and my hubby have never argued so much. He is fed up of me moaning, shouting, crying etc and I am frustrated that he is not helping me more and feel like absolute crap. I have made a concious effort not to shout so much, not to fly off the handle as much etc but it feels like he is looking for anything to tell me how mental I am. I am so upset right now I cannot stop crying. Am i mental? Am i losing my mind? Am i a nut case? These are all the things I am made to feel and I keep telling myself this is normal but I am doubting myself now.

I can't take these arguments anymore. I don't want to feel like this anymore. I have no one to talk to. i feel so lonely. Someone please tell me what to do. i am so sick and tired of d fighting and argument that it now a threat to my marriage... cos my hubby as failed to understand it my pregnancy hormone changes,.... i have never hit him or quarrel with him so badly... pls someone help me by telling me wat to do to stop this fighting arging and crying always...pls help
 
I think you need to get proper help hun, depression in pregnancy is very normal and there are things that can help, you need to speak with your MW or doctor ASAP! Please get help, hitting is not normal and it sounds like your mega low right now.

I hope you start to feel better soon, but i suspect you need more professional help. PM me if you want to talk (i have had depression in the past) but please do get some help. x
 
I've been going through this with my OH as well, except I've resorted to accidentally (really) breaking the computer instead of hitting. Please try to get yourself together when you feel the desire to hit because that's something you'll regret. Maybe you should try meditating regularly, but you should definitely go to a therapist/counselor just so you have someone to talk to who can help you work through your anger. I know, it seems like when your moods get like that (thanks to these AWFUL hormones), you just don't think what you're doing/saying is unreasonable. I go through it often, and my marriage has almost broken up because of it. It is very important to talk with your husband about your moods/feelings and also go out on a date with him and do your best to be patient with him when you go, and have a good time!
 

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