Hmmm... It couldn't be...?

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  1. Naaxi

    Naaxi 2 little raggamuffins

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    So just so you know the situation, DH had a vasectomy 12 years ago, but there's a sliiiight chance it can still work for us- otherwise we're trying to find a "sperm donor". Now, I've been extra moody this month, crying at silly things that I would never even at my worst PMSing times... Tummy's been feeling crampy- overall just been having signs, so much so that DH wanted me to do a test... I couldn't wait and did it a few days before AF was due and it was a :bfn:... but now it's day three after she's due and still no AF. DH wants me to do another test, but I'm scared of another let down, lol.
     
  2. willbamom1day

    willbamom1day Truly blessed - I'm a mom

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    :hugs: been thru that a many of times. The only way to tell is a test. May you be blessed with your BFP
     
  3. Naaxi

    Naaxi 2 little raggamuffins

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    Thanks, hun... I'm hoping for the best... I think I'll wait for AF one more day and then will take another test. Bahh... Maybe I should switch to a cheaper brand- or take out a stock in the company with how many test I buy, hahaha!
     
  4. Mrs_N

    Mrs_N New mummy

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    good luck :dust:

    there's only one way to find out......
     
  5. achekh8707

    achekh8707 TTC #2

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    hope you get your :bfp:!!!
     
  6. Tink.x

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    Well honey i think the best thing to do would be to take a test and atleast put your mind at rest. If you get a bfn and after a week still no AF i think you should go doctors for a blood test. Obviously if that's neg then you could have had a chemical preg, or it could have just been stress. I'm wishing you all the best of luck though!!

    Baby Dust..xxx..:dust:
     
  7. Naaxi

    Naaxi 2 little raggamuffins

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    Thanks, Tink.x... I'll most likely do that... I'll take the test first thing tomorrow morning, if AF doesn't show by then. I'll update you ladies tomorrow with the results... Hopefully it'll be my :bfp: though!!
     
  8. hayley2

    hayley2 Mummy to 2 + 1 on the way

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    Goodluck i hope you get the BFP you want. Keep us all updated xxx
     
  9. elainegee

    elainegee Well-Known Member

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    i work in a gp practice and a patient found herself pregnant even though her husband had a vasectomy.. good luck xxx
     
  10. Kelly9

    Kelly9 Well-Known Member

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    Ok question I'm confused... did he have it reversed? And if not didn't he go in so many months or weeks after the procedure and have a semen analysis done to see if he was still producing viable swimmers?
     
  11. Naaxi

    Naaxi 2 little raggamuffins

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    No he didn't have it reversed, and I've never asked if he went back in, but I'm pretty sure he would have... But I have researched it and it is still possible to become PG even after all that. And every time I hear of a case like it, it gives me so much hope :D So thanks a zillion, elainegee for that little info... You sure cheered me up... Off to bed for me, I think! And let's hope for a BFP in the morning :D
     
  12. willbamom1day

    willbamom1day Truly blessed - I'm a mom

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    any news? hopin you woke to a BFP
     
  13. Naaxi

    Naaxi 2 little raggamuffins

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    Woke to a BFN, but asked OH last night if he went to check up on his sperm count- turns out he didn't for the one year!! So that gives me so much hope! Also, his ex never got a BFP with either child and they now have two "BFN kiddies" haha! And :witch: is still MIA... OH made me go to the local walk in clinic to get bloodwork done... Here's hoping they call me tomorrow!! This wait is killing me!
     
  14. Kelly9

    Kelly9 Well-Known Member

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    Oh GOOD LUCK!!!! That is something to celebrate! I didn't want to sound so negative.. just wanted the facts but there could definitely be a BFP for you under those circumstances! I hope you get it! I wonder if it's the sperm that determines how much and how fast HCG can appear in a womans body? That would be an interesting research study!
     
  15. Naaxi

    Naaxi 2 little raggamuffins

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    Nah, I pursed my lips the first time I read your post, but then reread it and understood completely, lol. And I agree, that would be an interesting study! I hate that I am getting so excited, but I can't help it, LOL! :dance: And we MAY have found a friend who MIGHT be a donor if this doesn't work out for us... I just really hope it'll work out for us, haha!
     
  16. willbamom1day

    willbamom1day Truly blessed - I'm a mom

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    any news?????
     
  17. calm

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    Any news???? (best luck for you)
     
  18. ohmybabybump.

    ohmybabybump. mommy to nalani <3

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    i hope you get a bfp!!!! :) good luck to you!!!
     
  19. Naaxi

    Naaxi 2 little raggamuffins

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    No call yet... ended up passing out out of exhaustion around 5, woke up to a missed call, but it was just my brother calling. Still waiting and have a doc's appointment on Monday at my normal clinic. Still no AF, so I'm hoping I get a call today or tomorrow- the doc did say "We'll call you in the next couple days if it's positive." lol... Losing hope though, and that's making me wonder/worry where AF went... hmm...
     
  20. Naaxi

    Naaxi 2 little raggamuffins

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    Hmm... no call, so it must just be a REALLY long cycle... x) Wish I had started charting earlier, so I'd know whenabouts I should get AF... She's still missing, lol...
     

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