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[Babyvoisey]

I'm so upset although the last two days I think iv pretty much held it together quite well! Some of u may know me and OH have split up once again and I'm back living with my mum once again! Iv not contacted him off my own back and ignored a text he sent yesterday tea time! Anyway he went out into town drinking last night and about 2am I got 5 texts telling me he didn't mean anything he said he will always love me and he accepts t if this is the end (drunk talk) I text back saying I'm so hurt but we can't go on like this etc this morning and iv not heard a squeak at all I feel so hurt he's just going about his daily life as if nothing has happened! I feel like I'm Gunna have a breakdown! Our child is Gunna be here in 7 weeks maybe sooner all I want is him to text to see if I'm ok or something! Pointless thread I just dunno what to do x

 

[Mummy_to_be87]

Aww I dont really know what to say but I didnt want to read and run!

When me and my OH split up a few weeks ago as he was cheating, he was a complete jerk towards me saying he didnt want to have anything to do with me or the baby at all so I just let him tear on with his life and tried to get back on my feet and put my baby first, then after some time to cool down he came to my house and we spoke about things and have since then agreed to try again, but I know when he wasnt about and he was getting on with his life I felt like nothing and just wanted him to even send a wee message to see how me and LO was.

 

[Babyvoisey]

I just feel so upset and gutted he's not even text I feel at any minute I'm Gunna be tipped over the edge does he not care?

Sorry to hear about u and your OH hope things work out for u xxx

 

[Mummy_to_be87]

Is there any way you could call at the place where he is staying or ring him and ask him to meet and have a good long talk about things and hopefully you and your OH will be able to work something out between you both. You really dont need this stress at your stage as you should be taking things easy I dont know what happened between you and your OH but I hope something gets sorted before the LO gets here

 

[Mummy_to_be87]

I just read your thread about you are back living with your mum, I didnt realise he was being that way with you at all, so it sorta made me change my opinion and mind of what you should do, that is abuse and you do not ever deserve to be treated like that especially when you are pregnant, I say that you have done the best thing in moving away and be strong you deserve so much better, you deserve to be with someone who is going to love and support you 110% stay at your mums until you get on your feet and I would not worry about him, he has done wrong and you are worth so much more than that! It starts with words then it usually moves onto to physical and Im glad you and your LO is long gone and safe

 

[teddyed12]

wow this is like me! im at the same stage of pregnancy as you are, and we split up too. then the other day we started talking about how we could make it all better n how wed be frends and then wen we were closer again and havin fun tgether we would try again but not livin togethr just having a nice relationship. so we spent the night together the other night, like a couple would huggin kissin ect it was nice, he thanked me the next day n said wos js wot he needed n tht he enjoyed it, then went quiet all day. i then get a taxt last night telling me "not to get attached" and since he has said he just wants the friendship not the relationship. so we argued and i told him i cant be around him as a friend when i will alwys be wanting more and he now is just ignoring me, without a care in the world. its so so cruel and hard i know exactly how you feel, i am so down becos of it all he is my world but unfortuntly im not his and i jst cnt accept it. i feel ill never be over him. its so horrible when you just want someone to care and they wont big loves to you x

 

[happygal]

I've no advise but wanted to give you big hugs hun x

 

[FiNZ]

I just read back on your past thread about your ex. You are FREE of this disgusting verbal abuser. Don't look back and do you really want or need any texts from him asking how you are? I used to be called a c*nt by my ex husband on a regular basis, and I put up with it for years, and so much more verbal abuse and it wears you down and soon enough you start believing it. My life is sooooo different now and I'm happily married to an amazing guy who respects me and loves me and has never ever resorted to name-calling. Trust me, you don't need a wanker like him in your life. Just stay at your mum's and get settled and sorted and focus on you and your baby. Please don't waste any of your time talking to him or thinking about him or texting him. You are so lucky to be rid of him. I so so so so hope you take this seriously and believe that you deserve so much more than him. xxxx

 

[crimsonsky]

I read your previous post and Im so sorry you going through this. Obviously you want things to be good and to feel right but he was abusing you and no matter how much you want things to be good you are well shot of him as hard as that seems. I send you big hugs. You will come through this but you don't need beaten down by some jerk. You are a strong person x x

 

[Babyvoisey]

Thanks ladies! He text in the end and said he misses me etc etc! Iv told him I'm not going back and he said I'm breaking his heart by not living with him for when our son comes! I'm just so upset this happens all the time! I just need to stick by my guns this time as hard as it is! X

 

[Leets]

Stick by your guns and don't go back........he has to realise how bad he has hurt you and that ts gonna take more than a few nice texts to win you back, don't make him your priority at all, he needs to learn his lesson or things will never change. You want him and you want to be a family but it has to be right, take time outby yourself to understand what you really want and deserve, the time away will hopefully make him grow up and realise what an arse he is.

Xx

 

[taluhla]

He could have been spending his time proving that he's changed / that he wants to be with you / that you are his world .. but he was at the pub drinking ..

This this says it all really.. texting is easy .. it's what he DOES, not what he texts that is the giveaway..

I'm sure there is somebody else out there for you, somebody who will treat you right .. hold on for them and keep strong.

When your LO arrives you'll be a fantastic family together, the two of you..

Take care of yourself