SELFISH THREAD ALERT!!!!
So I wanted to TTC#2 in August 2014 originally (I'm talking about way back when LO was under 1) but as this approached I wasn't really excited about TTC so I pushed it back to Jan 2015.
Now I think I'm having a turning 30 crisis....instead of worrying about fertility I want to go on a girly holiday to Ibiza next summer!!! This means potentially I'm pushing TTC back until summer 2015.
I am torn about this decision though, because I definitely want to TTC and I know how fertility decreases with age so I'm not sure it's the right thing to do delaying TTC. A baby is much more important than a week of cocktails in the sun. But on the other hand, if I have a baby next year I don't know if my last "girly hol" will ever happen as I'm predicting most of my friends will be on and off being pregnant over the next few years. We're all hitting that time of our lives!
What would you do?
So I wanted to TTC#2 in August 2014 originally (I'm talking about way back when LO was under 1) but as this approached I wasn't really excited about TTC so I pushed it back to Jan 2015.
Now I think I'm having a turning 30 crisis....instead of worrying about fertility I want to go on a girly holiday to Ibiza next summer!!! This means potentially I'm pushing TTC back until summer 2015.
I am torn about this decision though, because I definitely want to TTC and I know how fertility decreases with age so I'm not sure it's the right thing to do delaying TTC. A baby is much more important than a week of cocktails in the sun. But on the other hand, if I have a baby next year I don't know if my last "girly hol" will ever happen as I'm predicting most of my friends will be on and off being pregnant over the next few years. We're all hitting that time of our lives!
What would you do?