WillowBranch
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Hi all!
I have been reading a lot of the threads here and decided to join the party. I'm 29 years old, and recently found out while at work that I was pregnant! This was not an intentional pregnancy, but was the result of a random IUD mishap. I have been in a (very quick moving) great, healthy relationship with my 32 year old boyfriend for only a few short months now, which made this pregnancy quite a shocker. I was on high alert after my IUD failed, so I tested (at work, because the anxiety of not knowing was killing me!) a few days before my period was due and sure enough...
Since then, I went to my OBGYN (10/06) and had a blood test done to confirm/determine how far along I am, and the doctor told me that I was "somewhere between 3 and 4 weeks, but definitely less than 5." So, not an exact science, but that means I conceived sometime in mid-ish September and am due in June, assuming all goes well.
My boyfriend, the amazing man he is, said "really?" in his most serious, manly tone when I showed him the tests that I took -- and then proceeded to pick me up, kiss me a ton and tell me how happy he is. He has been 110% supportive since, and is INCREDIBLY excited. Not a single ounce of fear or anxiety has come from this man.
I fluctuate between sheer panic and rare moments of peace. I work in investment banking, and my career is in such a rapidly moving and successful spot. I haven't told anyone else yet, and am very nervous to face the critical comments and/or judgment that may come my way for being pregnant with someone in a new relationship. I am already terrified enough of what's happening to my body, how I'll learn everything I need to in time, how I'll make the changes I need to in order to prioritize motherhood, how I'll cope with life "as I know it" ending, etc. Telling my family, his family, coworkers and friends that I am pregnant at this point in our relationship makes me feel very uncomfortable.
We both have stable careers, we are both functional, mature adults, we are both on board with this together -- all great things. I'm just so overwhelmingly nervous/unsure/surprised/in shock.
Any advice?
So anyway -- hi guys!
I have been reading a lot of the threads here and decided to join the party. I'm 29 years old, and recently found out while at work that I was pregnant! This was not an intentional pregnancy, but was the result of a random IUD mishap. I have been in a (very quick moving) great, healthy relationship with my 32 year old boyfriend for only a few short months now, which made this pregnancy quite a shocker. I was on high alert after my IUD failed, so I tested (at work, because the anxiety of not knowing was killing me!) a few days before my period was due and sure enough...
Since then, I went to my OBGYN (10/06) and had a blood test done to confirm/determine how far along I am, and the doctor told me that I was "somewhere between 3 and 4 weeks, but definitely less than 5." So, not an exact science, but that means I conceived sometime in mid-ish September and am due in June, assuming all goes well.
My boyfriend, the amazing man he is, said "really?" in his most serious, manly tone when I showed him the tests that I took -- and then proceeded to pick me up, kiss me a ton and tell me how happy he is. He has been 110% supportive since, and is INCREDIBLY excited. Not a single ounce of fear or anxiety has come from this man.
I fluctuate between sheer panic and rare moments of peace. I work in investment banking, and my career is in such a rapidly moving and successful spot. I haven't told anyone else yet, and am very nervous to face the critical comments and/or judgment that may come my way for being pregnant with someone in a new relationship. I am already terrified enough of what's happening to my body, how I'll learn everything I need to in time, how I'll make the changes I need to in order to prioritize motherhood, how I'll cope with life "as I know it" ending, etc. Telling my family, his family, coworkers and friends that I am pregnant at this point in our relationship makes me feel very uncomfortable.
We both have stable careers, we are both functional, mature adults, we are both on board with this together -- all great things. I'm just so overwhelmingly nervous/unsure/surprised/in shock.
Any advice?
So anyway -- hi guys!