rubexxx
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okay this is really long, i apologise in advance...
well, as some who have read previous threads/rants by me will already know, i have recently split with FOB. i still love him but he doesnt want to get back together, and even if he did, in all honesty ive got to admit i dont think it will work.
in the past couple of weeks hes been acting so immaturely, like he wont let me speak to him to his face about the baby, or sort anything out for when shes born, he says if i want to speak to him ive got his number even though every phone call / texting conversation ends up as an arguement :/ anyway, ive made the decision to move to my mums house, because although its quite far away from my dads house where i live now and my friends and school, i know ill be able to have the help i need with the baby when shes first born and my mum will show me how to do things if im not sure, without being too pushy or interefering.
the problem is, its about a 1 & 1/2 - 2 hour drive away from the area i currently live and where FOB lives. just because we arent getting on and hes showing no interest in either me or his baby at the minute, i know that he could be a great dad and i do NOT want him or anyone else to think im moving to my mums to stop him seeing the baby, because thats completely not the reason
there is a train station close to my mums, and one a reasonable distance from FOB's house, so he could easily make the effort to travel and see her, and ill be visiting quite often so that my friends and dad and brothers can see Taylor when shes born, so he can see her then aswell, but i just keep thinking that hes not going to make any effort with her if i move
i really do think that moving to my mums is the best choice, but should i rethink this whole thing? the only thing holding me back from moving is the fact that FOB might not bother?
please tell me what you honestly think, and sorry its so long! x
well, as some who have read previous threads/rants by me will already know, i have recently split with FOB. i still love him but he doesnt want to get back together, and even if he did, in all honesty ive got to admit i dont think it will work.
in the past couple of weeks hes been acting so immaturely, like he wont let me speak to him to his face about the baby, or sort anything out for when shes born, he says if i want to speak to him ive got his number even though every phone call / texting conversation ends up as an arguement :/ anyway, ive made the decision to move to my mums house, because although its quite far away from my dads house where i live now and my friends and school, i know ill be able to have the help i need with the baby when shes first born and my mum will show me how to do things if im not sure, without being too pushy or interefering.
the problem is, its about a 1 & 1/2 - 2 hour drive away from the area i currently live and where FOB lives. just because we arent getting on and hes showing no interest in either me or his baby at the minute, i know that he could be a great dad and i do NOT want him or anyone else to think im moving to my mums to stop him seeing the baby, because thats completely not the reason
there is a train station close to my mums, and one a reasonable distance from FOB's house, so he could easily make the effort to travel and see her, and ill be visiting quite often so that my friends and dad and brothers can see Taylor when shes born, so he can see her then aswell, but i just keep thinking that hes not going to make any effort with her if i move
i really do think that moving to my mums is the best choice, but should i rethink this whole thing? the only thing holding me back from moving is the fact that FOB might not bother?
please tell me what you honestly think, and sorry its so long! x