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I know what you mean!
We didn't even try on honeymoon last June, I wish we had now!!!!!!!!!!!
Everyone keeps saying how good holidays are for conceiving but I haven't got another one until next spring and typically this year I was on my period whilst we were away grrrrrrrrrr
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We didn't even try on honeymoon last June, I wish we had now!!!!!!!!!!!
Everyone keeps saying how good holidays are for conceiving but I haven't got another one until next spring and typically this year I was on my period whilst we were away grrrrrrrrrr
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I HATE honeymoon babies! How is that even f-ing possible? The drunken newlywed sex?? Surely they'd have to schedule it around ovulation.
That's about as bad as those babies conceived from one night stands!](/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/eusa_wall.gif "Brick wall ](*,)")
That's about as bad as those babies conceived from one night stands!
I must say I too am not a fan of honeymoon babies. Having said this.... At least they are in a relationship. A few weeks ago I had a 'friend' on Facebook announce their pregnancy.... They are single. Today another one has! Everything that keeps coming up on my news feed is them two congratulating each other and chatting about all the 'crap' that they are going through..... So can I please second mrsg with the f*** you to these two numpties who don't have a clue!
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!!!Not to steer from the original topic, but I too just had a friend who announced her pregnancy and she has NO boyfriend/fiance/husband!!! Also, she doesn't have the $ to pay for a donor and insemination..so how in the world did she procreate
??? On top of that, she's going to be a single mother. Screw that!
It's ridiculous isn't it?
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Not to steer from the original topic, but I too just had a friend who announced her pregnancy and she has NO boyfriend/fiance/husband!!! Also, she doesn't have the $ to pay for a donor and insemination..so how in the world did she procreate
agreed, it is ridiculous!
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also annoying- those people who have 4 kids and announce "im pregnant again!" an then go on to joke around an say "how did this happen again" yeah i hate those people or the "i just had a baby 6 weeks ago and im already pregnant again!"
and then there are the 15 year old girls who are knocked up and could care less. i look at them like god i hate you, you aren't even gonna take care of that baby and here i am im desperate to have a baby
that just drives me crazy and makes me wanna cry
and then there are the 15 year old girls who are knocked up and could care less. i look at them like god i hate you, you aren't even gonna take care of that baby and here i am im desperate to have a baby
that just drives me crazy and makes me wanna cry
I'll add my rant to this; Facebook can drive me c-r-a-z-y sometimes! All of the pregnancy announcements....the belly pics....the baby pics.....the "at ____ weeks, my baby is the size of a ____..." posts. I mean, I totally know it's something to be excited about, but I hate that it's in my face so often. I know I could stay off FB, but that's not all that easy for me, either.
It definitely makes me think, "When I get pregnant, I will be SO careful with what I post on there!!" You never know who is going through what, and sometimes a lot of that (heck, a lot of what other people say/do in regard to infertility in general) is just so insensitive. Makes me want to go into a cave and not come out until I get a BFP.
It definitely makes me think, "When I get pregnant, I will be SO careful with what I post on there!!" You never know who is going through what, and sometimes a lot of that (heck, a lot of what other people say/do in regard to infertility in general) is just so insensitive. Makes me want to go into a cave and not come out until I get a BFP.
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I would like to start by saying that I know I have not been TTC for very long, but the title of this thread caught my attention.
I am a honeymoon baby. (thats a bit like introducing yourself at AA lol) My brother was conceived by my parents "looking" at each other.
And for me ....nada
My mom and I actually had this conversation last night. Why, when something was so easy for her, is this turning out to be so difficult for me now? She had ridiculously short labors too, like 45 min for me and 90 min for my brother. WTF. And this is my mom, and the baby was me. How could I possibly be resentful about that?
I don't know, but I am. And that is not a good feeling.
My heart goes out to all of you ladies that have been TTC for so long. I don't know where my journey is going to end, but I know that it is in Gods hands.
My prayers tonight will be for all of our prayers to be heard. Only He knows what the answers will be.
So God Bess and Good Luck
I am a honeymoon baby. (thats a bit like introducing yourself at AA lol) My brother was conceived by my parents "looking" at each other.
And for me ....nada
My mom and I actually had this conversation last night. Why, when something was so easy for her, is this turning out to be so difficult for me now? She had ridiculously short labors too, like 45 min for me and 90 min for my brother. WTF. And this is my mom, and the baby was me. How could I possibly be resentful about that?
I don't know, but I am. And that is not a good feeling.My heart goes out to all of you ladies that have been TTC for so long. I don't know where my journey is going to end, but I know that it is in Gods hands.
My prayers tonight will be for all of our prayers to be heard. Only He knows what the answers will be.
So God Bess and Good Luck
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I don't so much believe that God will provide a child for us, rather that (hopefully) I will be able to follow the path that I am meant to be on. I am not overly religious, churchy, or Godly. I just have faith. Our earthly desires do not always coincide with Gods plan. Yes I want baby, badly. But maybe I have a calling I have yet to discover.
I am a nurse and I was called to be one. I am doing what I was meant to do in life. If I was not meant to have children then I will accept that too, however hard it may be.
And instead of raising wonderful babies to be wonderful adults, I will find another way to contribute to the world. My husband will love me no less if I am not able to make him a baby. He has a 10 yo daughter so we know it's not him.
And regardless of how it feels every time AF comes I know my life will continue and I will always make the best of it. I allow myself to be angry and jealous when my cousin announces her third pregnancy. And I allow myself to be upset and cry when it's not my month. I have all those same thoughts and feelings of why me. But I refuse to let it rule my life, ever.
I understand not everyone is able to see things the way I do, but maybe a little more faith is just what is needed? Pray for enlightenment? God bless.
I am a nurse and I was called to be one. I am doing what I was meant to do in life. If I was not meant to have children then I will accept that too, however hard it may be.
And instead of raising wonderful babies to be wonderful adults, I will find another way to contribute to the world. My husband will love me no less if I am not able to make him a baby. He has a 10 yo daughter so we know it's not him.
And regardless of how it feels every time AF comes I know my life will continue and I will always make the best of it. I allow myself to be angry and jealous when my cousin announces her third pregnancy. And I allow myself to be upset and cry when it's not my month. I have all those same thoughts and feelings of why me. But I refuse to let it rule my life, ever.
I understand not everyone is able to see things the way I do, but maybe a little more faith is just what is needed? Pray for enlightenment? God bless.
This thread has made interesting reading I am having a very grumpy week TTC related in fact everything related I work in a childrens centre surrounded by brand new babies and glowing mums all day long-colleagues have come and gone with their pregnancy's and then babies and yep im still here still nothing! excellent ranting girls.x
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I HATE honeymoon babies! How is that even f-ing possible? The drunken newlywed sex?? Surely they'd have to schedule it around ovulation.
That's about as bad as those babies conceived from one night stands!
We have been TTC now for 18 long months and it's pure fluke that my next O date also happens to be our wedding day. So no drunken newlywed sex for me and my OH, more like sneaking pre-seed into the reception, drinking non-alcoholic drinks and disappearing early for some
I'm for honeymoon babies in my case
Ok. So whenever I see a pg announcement on Facebook, even though it feels like someone has stabbed me in the heart and twisted it repeatedly, I try to be nice and congratulate them on their news....
However, earlier today a friend announced her pg. As per usual everyone congratulated her and then joined in with the pg talk. She then went on to joke how it was so easy and how it happened two months before their wedding, the first month they tried.....
Well I'll admit it, The bitch side of me took over and rather then congratulating her on her pg, I noted that that it explained her weight gain in the photos. :/
Thankfully Facebook allows you to delete comments.... And I did it pretty quick so I hope no one saw it!
Why do we torture ourselves reading this stuff. As much as it upsets me, I can't help but read it!
However, earlier today a friend announced her pg. As per usual everyone congratulated her and then joined in with the pg talk. She then went on to joke how it was so easy and how it happened two months before their wedding, the first month they tried.....
Well I'll admit it, The bitch side of me took over and rather then congratulating her on her pg, I noted that that it explained her weight gain in the photos. :/
Thankfully Facebook allows you to delete comments.... And I did it pretty quick so I hope no one saw it!
Why do we torture ourselves reading this stuff. As much as it upsets me, I can't help but read it!
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