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  1. Stacey_89

    Stacey_89 Team PINK

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    I am not pregnant yet. Been trying for 7months since our loss.

    Just wanting to know how long it took everyone to concieve after their loss.
    I know everyone is different but would be nice to just hear some stories of people concieving after their loss.

    Did anyone take longer then 7months ??

    Thanks ladies
     
  2. sophxx

    sophxx Well-Known Member

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    i had a mmc at 14 weeks a yr and 4 months ago now! that was a september and we started trying in the jan! it took us 6 cycles but i was having accupuncture to help me relax and my cycles on the last cycle1

    hope you fall pregnant soon! xx
     
  3. JASMAK

    JASMAK Mom of three

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    I have been ttc for four years, but it was 15 months since our last loss before I got pregnant this time.
     
  4. Aidedhoney

    Aidedhoney Mum of Nats & Alex

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    Everyone is different honey so please dont worry (easy for me to say i know)

    I had my loss on the 26th of Aug 08 at 16wks was twin girls but one had died at 10wks, fell pregnant with Alex at the end of Oct start of Nov 08.

    Relax and enjoy the trying x
     
  5. Stacey_89

    Stacey_89 Team PINK

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    Thanks,
    Its just everyone i know who's had a loss they all got pregnant again within 4 months
    and i just think to myself " why am i taking longer "
    It only took our four months last time so its frustrating

    but im sure it will happen when my body is ready :)
     
  6. lauralora

    lauralora Well-Known Member

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    i had a mc at 6 weeks in july, 2 cycles later i fell pregnant x
     
  7. fantastica

    fantastica Mum.

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    2nd loss was in Jan2008...although it was incomplete so there was still retained products until april...fell pregnant at the end of August/beginning September 2008. So was pretty 'lucky' in a sense.

    Although with the 1st (oct 2006) it took about a year...so it will happen for you too! Good luck :)
     
  8. xforuiholdonx

    xforuiholdonx Momma to Emma and Coltin!

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    Had a missed misscarriage that was diagnosed on August 27th 2009. My first cycle was October 7th, and I had my :BFP: on Nov 5th. Please dont be disheartened hun. It'll happen for you...
     
  9. Mrs Doddy

    Mrs Doddy 1 pink 1 blue

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    I know how you feel this is my 6th cycle since the mc ;-(
     
  10. Widger

    Widger Mummy at last

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    It took me about the same length of time as you to get pregnant this time and I thought it would never come. All that kept me going was thinking well if it is going to take a while this time it might mean that I get a sticky one this time and *touch wood* all good so far. Good luck. It will happen for you xx

    :dust:
     
  11. bky

    bky :(

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    My D&C was March, I got my bfp mid October.
     
  12. chatterbox09

    chatterbox09 Well-Known Member

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    hey luv my son was born 19 march 27 weeks and died 18 hrs later!:cry: i didnt try for 3 months to try a heal a bit and greve!!
    i had a mis miscarridge in sept and fell pregnant in nov :happydance:
    9 months nearly, hopefull things will happen soon for ya :hugs::kiss:
     
  13. JadeyB

    JadeyB Mummy of 2 (1 Angel baby)

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    Hi there,

    I got pregnant the first cycle we started trying after we lost our little girl, but it was 8 months after we actually lost her.

    That probably doesn't make much sense. We lost Amelia due to IC (after extensive surgery on my cervix), and I had to wait to have an abdominal stitch, after the op I had to wait another month (until next real period) before trying again. We fell pregnant the following month - I know I was extremely lucky.

    I think having something else to focus on can sometimes help. I had been so stressed out about the thought on trying and was obsessing about when I ovulate. I was tracking my temprature before we actually started trying so that I would know when the right time was. I have really irregular periods.

    Then we decided to get a puppy and that was all I could think about, I was so excited and so much more relaxed about trying. I wasn't even bothered about the dream holiday that we had booked to Hawaii and couldn't wait to get home to get a puppy - lol. Unfortunately I had to give up on the idea of the puppy when we found out we were pregnant as we didn't feel it right for us in a high risk pregnancy.

    I took 9 months to get pregnant first time round and again I was always stressing. I got pregnant on holiday that time when I had finally let my hair down.

    I really hope it happens for you soon.

    xxx
     
  14. Stacey_89

    Stacey_89 Team PINK

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    Thanks everyone =]

    Chatterbox 09 - I am very sorry for your loss, I can not even begin to imagin how hard that must of been,and then to have a MMC. How far along are you now :) ? Wish you all the best x


    Jadeyb - I am sorry for your loss hun !! but your are right about being relaxed, Last time every month i was stressing about getting pregnant,and 1 month i just didnt rele think about it or hardly spoke about it and just had fun with OH and that was the month i got my BFP :) Im not rele stressed about the TTC the only time i get rele upset is when AF arrives then after that im fine.... But im sure it will happen for me soon.

    Thanks everyone
     
  15. Stacey_89

    Stacey_89 Team PINK

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    Thanks everyone =]

    Chatterbox 09 - I am very sorry for your loss, I can not even begin to imagin how hard that must of been,and then to have a MMC. How far along are you now :) ? Wish you all the best x


    Jadeyb - I am sorry for your loss hun !! but your are right about being relaxed, Last time every month i was stressing about getting pregnant,and 1 month i just didnt rele think about it or hardly spoke about it and just had fun with OH and that was the month i got my BFP :) Im not rele stressed about the TTC the only time i get rele upset is when AF arrives then after that im fine.... But im sure it will happen for me soon.

    Thanks everyone
     
  16. mrsw777

    mrsw777 Third Trimester

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    Hi,

    We were lucky enough to fall pg on our second month of ttc our first baby but sadly we lost our son at 22 weeks in July 2008. It then took what seemed like forever until we hit the jackpot & got our BFP on 29 June this year, we fell on our 9th cycle after loss.

    Everyone is different & unfortunately as we found out, just because you fall quick it doesn't always happen that way again - or vice versa it could happen quickly after taking a long time first time around.

    I'm a great believer of when you're body is ready it will happen (although I know from experience when you want nothing else but to fall pg you think its never going to!!)

    Good luck xxx
     
  17. chatterbox09

    chatterbox09 Well-Known Member

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    hey thanx it will happen when u least expect it huni.
    im 9+1 now and over the moon just hope everything goes well this time xx:hugs:
     
  18. littledemonme

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    Hey lovely, I don't know if you've spotted a recurrent theme here.....I got pregnant again in month 7 - after my first hypnotherapy session. I was SO wound up about getting pregnant again, so distressed when it didn't happen first month out like it had first time and with everyone saying that's when you're at your most fertile...blah,blah,blah.
    I don't know how you've coped with the miscarriage but I took it really hard - still taking it really hard to be honest and whether it's hypnotherapy, accupuncture or a holiday I'm guessing you could do with some stress relief too.
    Wishing you all the luck in the world for a healthy happy pregnancy (believe me that's when the stress really starts!)
    :dust:
    Oh and get your bloods done to make sure your hormones are back on track, take a really good quality vitamin b complex and iron - apparently when you have a miscarriage it can deplete your iron reserves so much it's impossible to concieve till their full again(saw a nutritionist as well!!!)
     
  19. JennTheMomma

    JennTheMomma Mommy of 1 & Expecting #2

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    It took us 5 months to conceive Hunter after our loss.
     
  20. KA92

    KA92 Guest

    first mc in november 2008, bfp in oct 2009 (i wasnt ttc)

    miscarried nov 2009 bfp again today

    itl happen

    :dust:
     

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