Hi Ladies, I have been lurking here for the last few weeks and am not sure if I am even supposed to post so I apologize if I'm not but I think you wonderful ladies will be able to provide more insight for me. I am 31 Dh is 34 we have been ttc since July08, but stopped preventing in April08. With my short cycles (average 25 days) it has been 14 cycles of "trying" (OPKs, some cycles with preseed, legs in the air, you name it) and no BFP. I have scheduled my first doctor's appt for Monday - he knows we're ttc and suggested we make an appt to start the ball rolling to my DH so I bit the bullet. I am really nervous and afraid TBH of what I am going to find out on this journey but am so desperate for a little one I am putting on a brave face. I was hoping to get some info on what to expect - what the first steps are, what type of info I should be bringing etc. I am not bringing DH to this appointment. I want to discuss things with my doc first - then we can go together. Is that a bad idea? DH isn't handling the whole ttc thing very well (gets very upset when witch shows) and I want to get a handle on things before I bring him in. Any advice or words of wisdom are welcome. Hugs and babydust.