Puddleduck
Pregnant with #1
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Hi girls,
I am really after some advice please. I am so so worried following my mmc in June that the same thing will happen again to me. I am now 6 weeks pregnant and very anxious that it's going to happen again as this was how old the bean measured when I had my scan at 8 weeks the last time. So I am aware that the bean had died during this period.
I had a complete break down this morning in tears cause my symptooms keep coming and going and this morning I dont feel pregnant. Boobs aren't sore and the cramps/stretching pains have subsided today. I have only had 1 day of nausea.
I asked the midwife if she could arrange an early scan and she said no problem and when I suggested next week she laughed and said no way would they scan this early cause there is nothing to be seen at such an early stage.... So she lied about my edd to the hospital so I am booked in for a scan at 10 weeks now. 18th January ... how on earth will I cope until then ???? I am worried that I will lose this one as well.
I know lots of you have been through mc and mmc and I wonder how you are coping the second time around ? How do you keep positive ? Is it normal for symptoms to feel strong and then disappear for a bit at 6 weeks. My husband has said no to an early private scan this time and we should wait till the 10 week scan. He doesnt want me to be upset but I just cant seem to clear my mind of the worry.
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I am really after some advice please. I am so so worried following my mmc in June that the same thing will happen again to me. I am now 6 weeks pregnant and very anxious that it's going to happen again as this was how old the bean measured when I had my scan at 8 weeks the last time. So I am aware that the bean had died during this period.
I had a complete break down this morning in tears cause my symptooms keep coming and going and this morning I dont feel pregnant. Boobs aren't sore and the cramps/stretching pains have subsided today. I have only had 1 day of nausea.
I asked the midwife if she could arrange an early scan and she said no problem and when I suggested next week she laughed and said no way would they scan this early cause there is nothing to be seen at such an early stage.... So she lied about my edd to the hospital so I am booked in for a scan at 10 weeks now. 18th January ... how on earth will I cope until then ???? I am worried that I will lose this one as well.
I know lots of you have been through mc and mmc and I wonder how you are coping the second time around ? How do you keep positive ? Is it normal for symptoms to feel strong and then disappear for a bit at 6 weeks. My husband has said no to an early private scan this time and we should wait till the 10 week scan. He doesnt want me to be upset but I just cant seem to clear my mind of the worry.
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