I don't know if this makes sense. I'm not looking for strategies on how to make a decision. I'm just curious. When you were deciding whether to keep dating vs just stay single forever OR have more kids as a single mom vs not have more kids, what was the deciding factor for you? I keep going back and forth on what I want. So I'm just, what was your AHA moment to either keep/stop looking for Mr. Right or have more kids as a single mom (not if you were in a relationship).