i woke up on the morning of my due date (well, i believe it was my due date according to my charts, my scan put me 5 days ahead, which wasn't physically possible!) with slight cramping. i went to the loo and had a bit of a bloody show. i was getting tightenings all day. i had my last midwife appointment that afternoon and was due to have a sweep. i had tightenings while she was checking the position of the baby, but failed to do the sweep as she couldn't reach my cervix. lily was still only 2/5ths engaged. she reckoned i was probably in early labour.
we also had a small argument with the midwife as she was talking about induction for a week later, i was planning on refusing being induced at that point and wanted monitoring instead. i was given the usual stuff of putting my baby's life at risk, this was bollocks though as they had my dates wrong!
anyway, we then went into town to get some clary sage to help speed things along
that evening while walking the dog with the husband, i noticed i was getting tightenings every half hour or so. got home and realised they were actually every 15 mins. they soon got stronger and went to about every 7 mins.
i spent the next few days with fairly strong contractions between every 7 - 4 mins. we were planning a home birth but had to go into hosp for monitoring early one morning as lily wasn't moving much after contractions. all was fine so we went home for 24 hours.
the next morning contractions were every 3 mins, no midwives were able to come out to me, so my husbands aunt drove us back to hospital. scared the life out of her though as the journey takes about an hour and during that time my contractions went down to every 2 mins
lily was born about 20 hours later on nothing more than gas and air, which i only used after my waters were broken.
all in all i was in labour about 4 days, it may not have been active labour the whole time, but the contractions were just as strong at the beginning as the were when i was 8cm!
i should add, that lily was back to back and not fully engaged when i went into labour, which is why i believe it took so long.
sorry this is so long, but it went on a long time
we also had a small argument with the midwife as she was talking about induction for a week later, i was planning on refusing being induced at that point and wanted monitoring instead. i was given the usual stuff of putting my baby's life at risk, this was bollocks though as they had my dates wrong!
anyway, we then went into town to get some clary sage to help speed things along
that evening while walking the dog with the husband, i noticed i was getting tightenings every half hour or so. got home and realised they were actually every 15 mins. they soon got stronger and went to about every 7 mins.
i spent the next few days with fairly strong contractions between every 7 - 4 mins. we were planning a home birth but had to go into hosp for monitoring early one morning as lily wasn't moving much after contractions. all was fine so we went home for 24 hours.
the next morning contractions were every 3 mins, no midwives were able to come out to me, so my husbands aunt drove us back to hospital. scared the life out of her though as the journey takes about an hour and during that time my contractions went down to every 2 mins
lily was born about 20 hours later on nothing more than gas and air, which i only used after my waters were broken.
all in all i was in labour about 4 days, it may not have been active labour the whole time, but the contractions were just as strong at the beginning as the were when i was 8cm!
i should add, that lily was back to back and not fully engaged when i went into labour, which is why i believe it took so long.
sorry this is so long, but it went on a long time