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My baby shower in in 6 days. My cousin had asked if her boyfriend could come, and I said yes because I invited male coworkers so the shower was coed. Then yesterday I confirmed they were both coming, and she said yes plus her 2 year old and her 5 month old. Now, I should have figured she wouldn't have a babysitter if both her parents and her bf come... but I'm just so used to etiquette that a- baby showers are not the place for children and b- she should have asked so I could say no. Her kids are codependent and cry and throw things and my mom will be all over them instead of paying attention to me. Plus, I have a $100 diaper cake and a $300 cake and $150 of decorations. My mom has spent a lot of money to make this party very classic for me.
But I don't know how to tell her I don't want her kids there without being a b*. My mom loves my uncle, and I have gotten into it with this cousin before and it really hurts my mom when I do. My mom told me to just let them come and my brother will babysit, and he was like I don't want to. Plus, her son SCREAMS when his mom is out of sight.
But I don't know how to tell her I don't want her kids there without being a b*. My mom loves my uncle, and I have gotten into it with this cousin before and it really hurts my mom when I do. My mom told me to just let them come and my brother will babysit, and he was like I don't want to. Plus, her son SCREAMS when his mom is out of sight.