LunaBean
Noahs Mama & 7 angels <3
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Me and my OH had a chat last night and she said she thinks this whole TTC thing is taking over my life, which I know it is, but how do I make it stop! We can't go into town without me pointing out cute babies...prams...cute baby clothes...toddlers..everything! I'm constantly talking about 'when the baby comes' or 'when I get pregnant', not drinking tea/coffee/alcohol, the beeping thermometer waking her every morning, taking bout 20 supplements a day, not wanting to have a night out 'just incase I'm pregnant already' and its driving her mad. She can only be involved so much since it's mainly between me and the donor, bringing me cups of tea when 'the deed is done' etc, but she said last night she feels like our whole life has been put on hold trying to get me pregnant, and what will we end up like when I finally do? I can't afford to take a break for even a month since we only have 2 tries a month with the donor and what if that was the time it would have worked?
How do you stop it being in your head 24/7? I'm off work at the minute cus I'm sick, so I spend all day on here reading everyones posts and looking at bump pix which doesn't help, I really think she's gona start taking the laptop to work with her so I can't come online! I tried to go a whole day without mentioning babies once, but it lasted half an hour lol. Everytime I go to the bathroom I wana POAS, its crazy!!!
How do you stop it being in your head 24/7? I'm off work at the minute cus I'm sick, so I spend all day on here reading everyones posts and looking at bump pix which doesn't help, I really think she's gona start taking the laptop to work with her so I can't come online! I tried to go a whole day without mentioning babies once, but it lasted half an hour lol. Everytime I go to the bathroom I wana POAS, its crazy!!!