How many of you do the SMEP method?

Discussion in 'Trying To Conceive' started by kellis, Aug 23, 2009.

  1. kellis

    kellis mum of 2

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    Just wondered? We tried it last month and are gonna give it another go this months but i have to say i was truly sick of :sex:, although hubby thought i was great lol
     
  2. BabyBubbles

    BabyBubbles Expecting number 2!

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    we have been, but i agree, lately we've both been like 'lets do it and get it over with' lol which isnt the idea!!! It doesnt help that oh has a really low sex drive and would rather go to sleep!!! lol
     
  3. sar35

    sar35 New mum to beautiful boy

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    whats smep?
     
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    banana1011 Well-Known Member

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    ryder Mum to Jasmine & Peyton

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    Wouldnt sex every night be the same deal? lol
     
  6. kellis

    kellis mum of 2

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    i guess it would ryder but with smep it's every other day until your most fertile time where you do it 3 consecutive days and then a one day break. .thats hard going enough for me, everyday would kill me lol:wacko:
     
  7. Jessa

    Jessa Guest

    The SMEP seems to me to completely take out the last little bit of fun that is TTC. We just :sex: when I'm getting "high" or "peak" on my CBFM. Otherwise, it's whenever we feel like it. It just seems too prescriptive for me....although I'm sure hubby would love it! :D
     
  8. kellis

    kellis mum of 2

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    i agree jessa, last month most of the time it seemed like a chore which was awful and no reflection on my hubby, it just lacked sponteneity (spelling?) but i'm gonna give it another go just incase!
     
  9. Jessa

    Jessa Guest

    I think there's a fine line between making TTC a scientific or a natural process. I always said that I wouldn't make it a very scientific process, but had to since we're now 15 months on with no baby to show for it. I sometimes miss the innocence of just TTC. Don't lose that part unless you absolutely have to. Good luck!
     

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