idon't see why they should tbh, it takes two to make a baby why the girl should just suffer is beyond me. the blokes want the kid too, they should gothrough what we are! i think you are being reasonable, he should stop being so selfish - your body is going through alot of changes right now, least he could do is miss 1 weekend of going out.
when i was with my ex that's what we argued about aaaall the time. he still wanted to go out and drink (i even found texts on his phone saying that he'can't even mention the word lager these days' and the bint replied back that i 'wasn't dying... just pregnant' she'd never been preg in her life might i add!!!! and looking at her face she'd have to have a bag over it for somebody to even attempt
) even though isaid ididn't like itand i missed going out (before iwas preg i'd beout all the time would drink/smoke/usesunbeds everything that was bad i did i stoped all that as soon as i found out i was preg and even had to leave col because i had spd/pgp so thatpreg hit me really really hard). preg hormones don't help matters either.
with mynew partner things are great - i didn't drink/smoke/use sunbeds/do everything else that was badbefore we decided we would 'see what happens' so not much changed, appart fromagain me not being able to move due to spd/pgp - but we spoke about this when seeing 'what would happen' and we both knew what to expect. my partner decided that what i couldn't do he wouldn't do which i appreciate so so much! it makes it alot easier to say no to patte when he does too
lol. we have never argued about it once although i've told him numerous times i wouldn't mind him drinking/eating what i can't, and gods honest truth is iwouldn't mind.i feel alot betterabout this preg, think it has alot to do with me actually wanting this preg asaposed to my 1st were we werejust stupid about using protection. although him going out would still p me off as i havespd/pgp again and me moving much isn't really possible, so i'd be sat in onmy own alone as i seem to do all day everyday and tbh i really look forward to him finishing work so i actually have somebody to talk to,just to bearound, that's the part that would bother me, not the drinking alcohol part. wenever did that before pregnancy - we have far more important thingsthe spend £100-£200 a night on.
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