NuKe
mummy to 2 gorgeous girls
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Hi ladies, I feel a bit weird even asking this as I'm not pregnant yet, but I am desperate for a home birth next time round. I had a great birthing experience in hospital with Poppy, it was wonderful. But afterwards it was horrible, after I had my bed bath I had to try and manouvre myself onto a clean bed (extremely painful an hour after giving birth), then I was put in a bed on the ward right next to the window, the next day the sun was beating in on me and those wards are hot enuf already, I was sweating like MAD, and they wouldnt let me pull the curtain as they wanted light in for the other women. and i didnt feel comfortable, that whole first night i couldnt relax, kept thinking about my oh stuck at home. anyway (sorry for the ramble there), i was talking to my mum and telling her i wanted a home birth soooo badly and she completely shut me down, saying about how hospital was best etc etc etc. im not stupid, if anything goes wrong i will be STRAIGHT into hospital, but id at least like to try? and my mum was born at home! anyone else encountered a wall like this? any advice on how to bring her round to the idea??