Ms_Friendly
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So long story short - Hubby and I just moved to another town for job opportunities for him and I start school in January and am trying to also find work now.
I had it confirmed at a clinic that I am pregnant. They think im around 5-5 1/2 weeks along. But I am living with my parents and we are going crazy! We should be out of here VERY soon and I can't wait but in the mean time my mom is driving me insane. I'm a married 25 year old woman and she tells me what I can and can't eat due to baby. (She says I can't have ANY caffeine whatsoever for example) also tells me she wants to be in Delivery room and assumes she will be and to hear the heartbeat. This being our first I do NOT want anyone in there but my Hubs and he feels the same.
This is the day we become a family and it's a moment you will NEVER get back, I think I can dictate how I want it to go especially after suffering a horrible miscarriage in February.
We hear the heartbeat on the 4th. But besides that she has to control EVERYTHING. My dad is so laid back, don't know how he deals LOL
I try to clean she tells me no to relax and so when I don't do it like she said she gets mad and says shes sick and I should try to help more. Maybe it's my hormones but I can't take it.
How do I get through this first trimester or until I move out at least with minimal stress? I can't take any meds for my anxiety so that's out.
Thanks in advance. Hopefully someone's been in my shoes?
I had it confirmed at a clinic that I am pregnant. They think im around 5-5 1/2 weeks along. But I am living with my parents and we are going crazy! We should be out of here VERY soon and I can't wait but in the mean time my mom is driving me insane. I'm a married 25 year old woman and she tells me what I can and can't eat due to baby. (She says I can't have ANY caffeine whatsoever for example) also tells me she wants to be in Delivery room and assumes she will be and to hear the heartbeat. This being our first I do NOT want anyone in there but my Hubs and he feels the same.
This is the day we become a family and it's a moment you will NEVER get back, I think I can dictate how I want it to go especially after suffering a horrible miscarriage in February.
We hear the heartbeat on the 4th. But besides that she has to control EVERYTHING. My dad is so laid back, don't know how he deals LOL
I try to clean she tells me no to relax and so when I don't do it like she said she gets mad and says shes sick and I should try to help more. Maybe it's my hormones but I can't take it.
How do I get through this first trimester or until I move out at least with minimal stress? I can't take any meds for my anxiety so that's out.
Thanks in advance. Hopefully someone's been in my shoes?