I've been reading through some threads about how some OHs don't seem very interested in the pregnancy and don't seem to understand what we're all going through. So I was wondering if anyone had any ideas or tried anything and it's actually worked to make their OH feel involved? I sometimes feel like I'm really alone through this (probs just my hormones and the fact that I'm always asleep doesn't make me very good company!) so how have others made it feel as if you're going through pregnancy together? Or is it completely impossible for a guy to believe you're pregnant until he can see the bump?? At the moment, I feel really selfish as everything I say is about how the baby's making me feel, I don't think I've actually asked my OH how he's feeling or if he's worried about anything And I know everyone keeps asking him how I'm doing, again, I don't think anyone has asked him.. It makes me feel really guilty and wish I could involve him more. There's a really nice thread about advice for new mums in the post-natal section and I thought it would be nice if we could share ideas on how we can make pregnancy a two-way thing .... afterall, he helped get us here so I want him to enjoy and experience it too!