Momtastic101
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Ttc is making me feel very disconnected and disappointed in my husband, I feel like I'm trying to make a baby alone, he doesn't put in a fraction of the effort I put in. He completely shuts down if Me or my doctor bring up anything that makes him feel as if he's going to be blamed for our fertility issues. I've been tested for everything and all my test came back normal, so now it's his turn but He can't be bothered to take vitamins, and he refuses to get a sperm analysis, which I think is an ego thing. He promised me he would start taking vitamins and in 6 months if we still haven't conceived then he'll do a sperm analysis, but now he's avoiding the subject, and won't take the vitamins. I know he wants kids because he always talks about having a family, and what he will do when we finally have a baby, and what he will name his kids. He loves children, and he gets really disappointed when my period shows up every month. What can I do to get him to open up and be more involved In this journey?