Hubby too tired to bm last night- it's my fertile week! Feel like we are out now :(

[ladyV84]

So I don't track ov but I do have a pretty solid regular cycle and according to ovulation calculations I wiill be ovulating this week...

I have had the pains in my left side so I'm pretty sure it's happening. On Monday we were both off work so bm twice but last night hubby said he just felt too tired and now I'm worried he's going to have ruined our chances this month!

My question is if it says my fertile week is 3rd-7th should we just bm every day that week or more or less? Last time I wasn't so aware of ovulation so we just bm every other day for the whole month and conceived the 2 nd month.

Argh silly husbands!!! X

 

[CoralInGold]

We are having such an alike month this month Lady! Both ovulating the same week, due on the same day & OH was also too tired to BM last night! We did the night before though & hopefully tonight so I'm hoping we will catch the eggy!

I've heard BM'ng every other day is the best xx

 

[ladyV84]

Gosh how weird is that! Defo ttc buddies !!

Yes we bm twice on Monday but when we didn't last night I just lay there thinking oh well that's it then

I know it sounds silly but I so want it to be this month ( not only because I'm soooo impatient!!) but because ds2 was born July 3rd and so I really want a month between their birthdays ! If we don't conceive this month I'd have to really think about trying next month as they could share a birthday and I'd hate that for them!!

Anyways it suppose what will be will be. I think we will try and bm tonight and then maybe miss tomorrow then once more before it's tww!

Keep me posted with how you're doing lovely x

 

[CoralInGold]

No BM for us last night OH has so much on at work at the moment, he is always shattered. My O symptoms have stopped, I'm really hoping we still have time but I'm just not sure we've done enough. Only time will tell!

Yes I can see why you wouldn't want them to share birthdays, really hoping this is your month xx

 

[ladyV84]

Oh it sucks doesn't it, such a short window of opportunity

I was too tired last night but we dtd anyway as I had given hubby such a hard time the day before !

Keep on Hun, there's still time xx x

 

[Tink_]

I've had this with my OH this week. It's become like a definite chore!

Wishing you both lots of baby dust! x

 

[CoralInGold]

Thanks Tink, & you!

 

[ladyV84]

The other day we decided to have a quicky and honestly we laughed are selves senseless as we never have quickies in the day time! We got it done in the end but every time we looked at each other we were in fits....
It's a funny old journey this ttc lark!!!!

 

[CoralInGold]

Hahaha brilliant! Is your OH getting impatient too?

 

[havingmyfirst]

Its crazy isn't it. WIth our first we weren't consciously trying so we didn't have all this.
I have had friends who dtd every other day and others who dtd everyday in their fertile week.
We haven't done any tests on when I ovulate so just guesstimating based on cycle length but we are at least every other day until yesterday when I had the worst headache and my DH said he couldn't dtd with me as he knew I felt terrible...
Whats meant to be will be. DTD as much as possible can only be a good thing though!