Hubby won't have S/A :(

[sammynashley]

So me and hubby have just gone onto cycle 17 ttc baby no#3 it's the longest we've been trying, I felt something wasn't right had bloods & ultrasounds done akthought I do ovulate my cycles length varys and the GP has diagnosed me with PCOS, so then we we're talking next steps and said I'd need to be referred to a specialist to discuss next steps so I said ok let's go ahead but he's told me hubby needs to have a S/A... And he has point blank refused there's no way of even trying to talk him into it...so the GP has said unless he does he it can't refer us

I'm so upset.. I thought he wanted it as much as I do but I guess not so now I'm lost. And feel like no one will help me because hubby won't have his test done


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[Baby.Love12]

I could have wrote that myself. I am about to begin my 17th cycle ttc #3 (fiances first) and nothing besides a mc in January. He hasnt done sa either. Hasnt said he wont but hasn't taken initiative either sorry you are going through that. Why won't he do it?

 

[sammynashley]

Sorry to hear your in the same boat at me Hun.

Hubby's excuse to me was that we've had 2 children so there can't be anything wrong! What didn't help was the GP saying..well it's unlikely he has problems after fathering 2 children so the problem probably lies with me!
But I can't get the referral for next steps because he won't do his business in a cup!

So right now feeling pretty stuck, and is there any point carrying on when the GP said it's unlikely I'll fall pregnant naturally

Doesn't help my friends have had babies and announced pregnancys the whole time we've been ttc! And I am a little jealous because I just wish it was me!



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