Wanting to have a homebirth, but that's a whole different story.. Either way, I am tempted by hypnobirthing as if I get stuck in a manky hospital, I'm hoping it will help me to cope better. (opinions and experiences?)
Anyway, I mentioned it to my DH, and his first reaction was "is it expensive?" What a lovely reaction. He'll happily pay out for a stupidly expensive mobile phone, gadgets for the house, and goodness knows what else.. But hypnobirthing classes set alarm bells off in his head for some reason. Maybe it's because he seems to think it wont benefit *him*.. Believe me, if I'm comfortable (since I'm the one pushing the kid out) it WILL benefit him as I won't be screaming/throwing things at him and telling him to get his act together.
Also, will it be too "cringeworthy" for the DH, almost so he wont take it seriously? Do you think that's maybe what he's worried about too?
(This post makes it seem like I'm saying that he's a horrible, uncaring and not open to new ideas.. That's not the case at all, hence why I'm a bit shocked!)
Anyway, I mentioned it to my DH, and his first reaction was "is it expensive?" What a lovely reaction. He'll happily pay out for a stupidly expensive mobile phone, gadgets for the house, and goodness knows what else.. But hypnobirthing classes set alarm bells off in his head for some reason. Maybe it's because he seems to think it wont benefit *him*.. Believe me, if I'm comfortable (since I'm the one pushing the kid out) it WILL benefit him as I won't be screaming/throwing things at him and telling him to get his act together.
Also, will it be too "cringeworthy" for the DH, almost so he wont take it seriously? Do you think that's maybe what he's worried about too?
(This post makes it seem like I'm saying that he's a horrible, uncaring and not open to new ideas.. That's not the case at all, hence why I'm a bit shocked!)