bluecathy1978
Mum to 6 kids & 2 angels
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Hi ladies,
I am here again. Completely in shock. Wasn't trying for another baby. We have only had sex once since my daugther was born in April but it was unprotected so I guess I am totally to blame.
Feeling really guilty because I know what people will say in my family. I love babies and love being pregnant but never did I expect I would be a mum of 5.
I was about to start job hunting as when my daughter is 1 in April my Tax credits will drop dramatically and the company I used to work for went into liquidation when I was on maternity leave. My boss asked me to write to him saying that I wasn't going to return after my maternity leave which I had mentioned but hadnt 100% decided. He is trying to prevent me from claiming redundancy I think but he still owed me money from my maternity leave anyway but that is a different story!
I really want to feel possitive as each baby is a blessing and I know how many people struggle to get pregnant and here I am. My husband only has to look at me and wham! He is definately having the snip now
Going to have to check what benefits we can get now as we are going to struggle a bit financially and I really didnt want to go down that route hence job hunting.
I am sure I will feel better once it has sunk in and I start blossoming. I love my family so much and I now have a bump to love too xxx
I am here again. Completely in shock. Wasn't trying for another baby. We have only had sex once since my daugther was born in April but it was unprotected so I guess I am totally to blame.
Feeling really guilty because I know what people will say in my family. I love babies and love being pregnant but never did I expect I would be a mum of 5.
I was about to start job hunting as when my daughter is 1 in April my Tax credits will drop dramatically and the company I used to work for went into liquidation when I was on maternity leave. My boss asked me to write to him saying that I wasn't going to return after my maternity leave which I had mentioned but hadnt 100% decided. He is trying to prevent me from claiming redundancy I think but he still owed me money from my maternity leave anyway but that is a different story!
I really want to feel possitive as each baby is a blessing and I know how many people struggle to get pregnant and here I am. My husband only has to look at me and wham! He is definately having the snip now
Going to have to check what benefits we can get now as we are going to struggle a bit financially and I really didnt want to go down that route hence job hunting.
I am sure I will feel better once it has sunk in and I start blossoming. I love my family so much and I now have a bump to love too xxx