Just wanted to let you all know im feeling much more positive now. The hospital wasn't too awful, they didn't need my bloods after all so it was a wasted journey but it wasn't as bad as i thought and actually with that being the last time (hopefully) i need to be there It will erase yesterdays. I had a few moments with some tears but im getting there. We went to my MIL's and i love her she is the most positive person ever. She didn't really mention it which is totally out of character but she did stop me the door and tell me it was lovely news gave me a hug and kiss and that was it. No more said. I think she felt my upset and didn't want to push me.
On the way home i saw a family with their son and a little girl in a pushchair. I have to admit i felt angry, angry that some people seem to have what i want so badly. And it just seems to be everywhere.
We did pop to sainsburrys and i mooched around the clothing hoping to pick out soemthing for her. Anything really just so i could look at it and think ok this is for MY baby, she will be a little person. But as i was looking at the babygrows, all little pink ones with cute little things on them i could see some dinosaur ones. I want those. I wanted to buy those not pink one's. I didn't buy any. It would always been a reminder of those, the one's i will never get to buy.
Having the day distracting myself has helped alot. My husband has been amazing. He hasn't told me im wrong not once. He held my hand in the car while i was sobbing. He understands. He will never get a boy either.
We have settled on a name so i'm hoping it will help feel attached to her. Eden Blaire R....... Eden we like and i found out its a name which came from edith which is my grandmothers name. Also its paradise, even though we are not religious it just feels a soothing meaning to me. Blair is my maiden name but i think its more feminine with a E.
Hope your all well, I think i'll keep updating this just for people to see and relate to even if they don't comment. It's very soothing for me and i hope i come the full circle into loving and embracing her.