I cant enjoy this pregnacy

Mummytoobeexx

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Im 26 weeks pregnant and the father of the baby has taken no interest in this baby what so ever :( Well apart from when he split with his ex and thought i'd come running back, he thought wrong... also seeing him in the local pub he didnt even have the decency to ask how me n baba was just liked the idea of staring at me constantly so i left!!

I dont know if im being silly but i feel like i cant enjoy this pregnancy :( This baby is going to be so loved and i cant wait but i feel asif its my fault i got pregnant and put the ex in a position he dont want to be in, i no thats not the case but i just cant help feeling like this... Ive also had enough of a few family members asking about the dad, av i seen him, is he going to support u etc i feel so stupid :cry:

He has an 7 year old son and he supports him but when it comes to mine no interest, he just ignores me, tx him few times no reply!!
 
You shouldn't feel like its your fault hun, he knew what he was doing and it takes two people to make a baby!
 
awww you poor thing. I can't imagine how horrible that must be for you.

This baby is much better off without him in their life if he is going to be like that. All you can do is try not to let him bother you and concentrate on that lovely little bundle you are carrying :) As for people asking you about what he is going to do, just smile sweetly and say why dont you ask him what he plans to do as it is out of my control.
 
dont feel stupid - he sounds like a proper tosser! you are probably better off without him if he is behaving like that!

take pride in the fact that you wil be an amazing single mother and will meet the man of your dreams (who wont be childish!!) when the time is right!
 
Thanks girls! I just wish he wud help out a little im thinking about texting him but not sure :/
 
Dont feel silly! MEN are stupid and they say women are difficult.

I think it would be difficult for him to "seem interested" as you's arent together. I have a feeling things will change dramatically when he see's the baby :D :D try and enjoy your pregnancy you wont get this time back!!
 

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