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Katieeeee
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I need calming down
The baby's father- what can I say- he's a complete TWAT.
Since we found out I was pregnant, we split up. He now has a new girlfriend. Ok fair enough, but he refuses to tell her that I'm pregnant! Erm, that's disgustingly wrong right? Or am I overreacting?
Anyway. After 6 weeks of not getting on with each other and him proving numerous times what a nasty evil w**nker he is and how unreliable and uncaring he is, (he even told me over the phone that his friends and social life come before anything, even his own children), we got on for about a week. Everything was absolutely fine and I've been feeling really good about myself. Then today, my best friend suddenly decides to interfere and tell me that when the baby is born, I shouldn't expect him to help me out or be there for me because he is likely to ditch me and leave me when I need him the most. And that I should basically cut him out of my life completely.
I'm really really angry at her, because it took us AGES to get to this happy place where we're both getting along and now we're fighting again.
And I'm really angry at him because all he's saying is "nah I like us getting along. it's cool. bye!" and won't actually do anything to calm me down or reassure me he's going to be there for me.
I can't trust anyone anymore, I just don't know what I'm supposed to do. No matter what I try, it's not good enough for anyone yet no one is respecting MY feelings and I'm the one whjho's pregnant!
The baby's father- what can I say- he's a complete TWAT.
Since we found out I was pregnant, we split up. He now has a new girlfriend. Ok fair enough, but he refuses to tell her that I'm pregnant! Erm, that's disgustingly wrong right? Or am I overreacting?
Anyway. After 6 weeks of not getting on with each other and him proving numerous times what a nasty evil w**nker he is and how unreliable and uncaring he is, (he even told me over the phone that his friends and social life come before anything, even his own children), we got on for about a week. Everything was absolutely fine and I've been feeling really good about myself. Then today, my best friend suddenly decides to interfere and tell me that when the baby is born, I shouldn't expect him to help me out or be there for me because he is likely to ditch me and leave me when I need him the most. And that I should basically cut him out of my life completely.
I'm really really angry at her, because it took us AGES to get to this happy place where we're both getting along and now we're fighting again.
And I'm really angry at him because all he's saying is "nah I like us getting along. it's cool. bye!" and won't actually do anything to calm me down or reassure me he's going to be there for me.
I can't trust anyone anymore, I just don't know what I'm supposed to do. No matter what I try, it's not good enough for anyone yet no one is respecting MY feelings and I'm the one whjho's pregnant!