RMOR12
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I hate myself. I don't even deserve a child for feeling this way :'( I already have a beautiful 18 month old son and I'm 21 weeks pregnant with my second child. I didnt want to find out the sex at my 20 week scan but my OH really really wanted to know so the lady doing the scan told him but I didn't know. My OH was great and didnt give anything away. I put my scan on facebook and everyone knows I am not finding out but they had guesses anyway and EVERYONE said its 100% a girl. It had been 3 days and it just felt wierder and wierder that my OH knew and I didn't! So in the car today we were pestering each other about it and I suppose I convinced myself I might as well know. I knew in my heart I didn't want to but my OH looked so excited to tell me. He said our son is having a baby brother! I immediately felt sick and I hate hate hate myself but I felt disappointed. I feel like if he had told me it was a girl I would have been so excited! And not disappointed the surprise is ruined but finding out its another boy I feel like its a double low blow, yet if I had of found out its a boy when I gave birth I would have been just so happy. Does that make sense? And now I can't rewind it. Everyone thinks I don't know but I bloody do and everyone thinks I'm having a girl but I now KNOW that I'm having a boy. I wanted a little girl to braid her hair and teach her to dance and just stupid little things. My number one priority is that my baby is healthy so why the hell do I feel like this? I'm disgusted in myself :'(