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maddiwatts19
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..but my sort of future SIL is trying to get pregnant AGAIN!!
Some of you may remember me talking about her in the past.
She's 18 nearly 19, and tricked my OH's brother into getting her pregnant by not taking the pill and telling him she was.
well, they had a lovely little boy, who i absolutely adore who is now 15 months. when this little boy was 3 months, she got pregnant again! and her second son was born the day after her eldests 1st birthday.
Now her second son is 3 months, and shes said she's going to get pregnant again!!!
they cannot cope with the two they have. My BIL works 8am - 7pm everyday, and has to drop the kids off at either her mums or his mums everyday so that she can stay in bed...money is really tight, but shes just made BIL buy a new car. she goes to MIL's every weekend, and they all stay over, despite there being no room in the house because she cant cope.. basically, its just the biggest feeling of she cant be bothered to be a mum!
i'm not blaming this on her being a teen mum, please dont think that.! My best friend became a mum at 17 and she is the BEST mum in the whole world, this girl just got pregnant to make sure BIL wouldnt leave her. He doesnt love her, and is only with her because she says he wont see the kids if he leaves.
She really is a horrible person...just because BIL wouldnt give her money to go out drinking, she said that she never should have had his "stupid kid". she's sat INFRONT of me and slagged off my OH, OH's little sister has cystic fibrosis, and she wont let her look after the kids because she thinks they might "catch" it. and she rubbed it in my face when i lost my last baby...kept saying oooh you'll be going through this soon, oh wait, no you wont, you lost another baby.
i really do hate her...and i rarely use that word!!
I just dont get how another baby is a good idea at all!! MIL heard that she wants to get pregnant again, and she's gunna do all she can to make sure her son doesnt get her pregnant!! the two boys she has are gorgeous!! but the eldest has become a bit bitter since the second has come along, i think it might be because his 1st birthday basically go sidelined as it was her due date (good on no2 coming day after! lol!) but he even hits his mum, but is fine with everyone else..
also, i dont really know how her body will cope with another one right now...i mean, two babies under 18 months!!
i'm not saying this because i hate her, but its just not fair on BIL, the little ones or the future baby!!
but i cant exactly do anything, i'm just her OH's brothers fiancee...
sorry, i just needed to rant after OH just told me...
thanks for reading!! lol! you deserve a medal!!
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Some of you may remember me talking about her in the past.
She's 18 nearly 19, and tricked my OH's brother into getting her pregnant by not taking the pill and telling him she was.
well, they had a lovely little boy, who i absolutely adore who is now 15 months. when this little boy was 3 months, she got pregnant again! and her second son was born the day after her eldests 1st birthday.
Now her second son is 3 months, and shes said she's going to get pregnant again!!!
they cannot cope with the two they have. My BIL works 8am - 7pm everyday, and has to drop the kids off at either her mums or his mums everyday so that she can stay in bed...money is really tight, but shes just made BIL buy a new car. she goes to MIL's every weekend, and they all stay over, despite there being no room in the house because she cant cope.. basically, its just the biggest feeling of she cant be bothered to be a mum!
i'm not blaming this on her being a teen mum, please dont think that.! My best friend became a mum at 17 and she is the BEST mum in the whole world, this girl just got pregnant to make sure BIL wouldnt leave her. He doesnt love her, and is only with her because she says he wont see the kids if he leaves.
She really is a horrible person...just because BIL wouldnt give her money to go out drinking, she said that she never should have had his "stupid kid". she's sat INFRONT of me and slagged off my OH, OH's little sister has cystic fibrosis, and she wont let her look after the kids because she thinks they might "catch" it. and she rubbed it in my face when i lost my last baby...kept saying oooh you'll be going through this soon, oh wait, no you wont, you lost another baby.
i really do hate her...and i rarely use that word!!
I just dont get how another baby is a good idea at all!! MIL heard that she wants to get pregnant again, and she's gunna do all she can to make sure her son doesnt get her pregnant!! the two boys she has are gorgeous!! but the eldest has become a bit bitter since the second has come along, i think it might be because his 1st birthday basically go sidelined as it was her due date (good on no2 coming day after! lol!) but he even hits his mum, but is fine with everyone else..
also, i dont really know how her body will cope with another one right now...i mean, two babies under 18 months!!
i'm not saying this because i hate her, but its just not fair on BIL, the little ones or the future baby!!
but i cant exactly do anything, i'm just her OH's brothers fiancee...
sorry, i just needed to rant after OH just told me...
thanks for reading!! lol! you deserve a medal!!
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