I feel awful. Pregnant and don’t know who the dad is.

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  1. Eriam4749

    Eriam4749 New Member

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    Hey all: let me just explain my situation before the judgment sets in.

    My long term boyfriend and I broke up for 2 weeks and I ended up sleeping with someone else

    problem is, my long term boyfriend and I had sex the 22nd of April (one day before we broke up) and he always finishes inside. We have tried to have a baby for over a year. When we broke up, I slept with guy number 2 on the 30th of April with the suspected day of ovulation as the 28th. My period is pretty regular and I have about 28-29 days in my average cycle.

    so, would that make my boyfriend the dad? Or the second guy?

    First day of LMP: 4/13/2022
    Last day of LMP: 4/18/2022
    Sex with BF: 4/22/2022 (this was just the last day we had sex)
    Sex with Guy #2: 4/30/2022
    Suspected ovulation: 4/28/2022
    Fertile window: 4/23/2022-4/29/2022

    thank you in advance
     
  2. MrsKatie

    MrsKatie Well-Known Member

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    There’s really not going to be a way to know until baby is born and you do a dna test.
    When did you get your positive test?
     
  3. NDH

    NDH 5 on earth, 6 in heaven, 1 in utero

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    We're you tracking ovulation with temps and cervical mucus etc, or just assuming that was ovulation based on a period tracking app or the like? If the former it's *most likely* the boyfriend, as an egg is only viable for 24 hours after ovulating. But there's no way to know for absolute sure without a DNA test - if you ovulated later than expected, which regularly happens, then it could just as easily (even more easily) be the second guy.

    So you're going to have to be upfront and tell the boyfriend that he may not be the father and you won't know without a paternity test.
     
  4. NightFlower

    NightFlower Trying for last baby I'm hoping for a girl

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    After baby is born get a DNA test only way to know 100%
     

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