i feel like giving up :(

[mika]

Me and my hubby have beent trying for a baby for over 6 years.
I have lost 4 in the last 18 months
and today got me

I belive in fait and feel that somthing is telling me im not meant to have a child

Sorry to be so down... going to sob into my beer now

 

[fluffyblue]

Hey hun sorry your feeling so low, ive lost 5 babes in 2 years so I know how your feeling.

Are you having any sort of testing? I say that because I have a cause for my recurrent miscarriages?

Heather x

 

[hb1]

Oh Mika - very sorry you're so low at the moment. When I was down about my mc and ttc ( and I know I haven't been thru what you have ) I found the success stories in LTTTC really heart-warming.

Like Fluffy says - has your dr done tests ( I am imagining yes ) - if so what did they reveal?

Sorry again

hx

 

[mika]

they did general bloods and all came back fine, now i am waiting to have compatability tests (blood) to see if me and my hubbies cromasones (cant spell) are compatable.
The issue i have with my GP is he keeps telling me to wait 6 months!! i have waited 6 years how much longer does he want

 

[hb1]

OMG - I would demand to be passed on to a fertility specialist

https://www.midlandfertility.com/

Seriously - it isn't right that your GP is stringing you along!

hx

 

[Dannib247]

mika im sorry your feeling so crappy at the moment is there any possibily you could stop trying for a few months til your specialist ref comes through then in the break you and your oh could get back to having fun try getting on a mini break together somewhere or anything thats fun you would enjoy together, i know its not the best solution for wanting a child the reason i offer this advice is myself and partner have been trying for 4 yrs and we were going crazy with ttc to the point my af in january i cried for 2 days solid so we had decided to stop trying (its so much easier said than done) while we wait for our referal to come through we are going on a 4day camping break on the coast the end of april which will be cheap and cheerful and something we can do together without the added stresses of everyday life. also im starting acupuncture in april to help with stress and ttc in april ive heard such great reviews recently is this an option for you ? xx im thinking of you hun and really hope you get your bfp soon xx

 

[mika]

think we might just take your advice and go away for a few days!! that sounds great
i know i should not let it get to me but like you, when AF shows you just feel so dam low...

Thanks every one xxx feel a bit better knowing im not the only one xxx

 

[Dannib247]

xx

 

[fluffyblue]

Hunni firstly I would go back to GP and ask him to refer you to the Recurrent Miscarriage at Solihull Womens Hospital. The first appointment will be bloods and history - hormonal and chromosomal. The second maybe scan and infection testing and then the third to discuss further treatment etc.

I would highly recommend you push for this.

I am also undergoing fertility treatment at Good Hope Hospital in Sutton Coldfield because of irregular cycles etc and 2 years TTC.

Please have the confidence to go back to your GP hun they may be able to find something xxxx