I keep starting to type and deleting, I don't even know where to start. I have a gender scan one week from today, and I'm petrified to go. I want a girl so badly that I know I will cry and be distraught if it's a boy. I have a 9 year old boy, a 3 year old girl, and a 20 month old boy. All beautiful, healthy, and happy. I KNOW that's what matters. I know I should be ecstatic about this little blessing growing in my belly, regardless of whether it will wear pink or blue. I'm so scared to go find out it's a boy that I don't even want to go to the scan. I won't be able to enjoy the pregnancy for a while, I definitely won't be able to enjoy the scan. I feel like such an awful person because I feel this way just about gender. I know I should just wish for a healthy baby but I just want a girl so badly it makes my stomach hurt and I cry just thinking about it. My family and husband all say it's a boy and I get so angry when they do. I don't even want to talk about it. I know EVENTUALLY I will get over it if it's a boy, but is there any trick to doing this sooner? This is our last baby. I want it to be a joyous time, regardless of whether or not it's a boy or girl. I keep telling myself that a baby is a blessing either way, and I know that's true, and I know I'll love it regardless, but I'm just so upset even thinking about another boy. I feel so awful and I can never tell my husband I feel this way. Has anyone else felt this strongly? I feel so terrible.