BigMumma01
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Hey ladies,
This is abit long..and dunno why i am putting it on here..but you ladies are so understanding and its nice to talk to someone out the situation.
My auntie is coming up for 50 and has now decided she wants babies.. but has found out she cannot have them so has been told she can only adopt..i feel so so sorry for her but also think leaving it till 50 is a bit late ..but guess thats up to her...
Since she found out i was pregnant she has not left me alone, i have never been close with her..just spoke to her at family things.. or christmas etc.. but she has been offering to pay for ostepath sessions for me as she believes they help pregnancy and the baby.. she had a go at me cos i not 100% sure yet if i am going to breastfeed and told me i was hindering my babies development, now getitng so close to my due date she is calling 3/4 times a day... sending me facebook messages...
I went out this morning and left my facebook on..i had 5 messages from her saying...
"where are u?"
"why are u not answering your home phone?"
"Are u in labour?"
"How are u today?"
" Hows baby?"
I actuallly spoke to her yesterday and told her there had been no changes and would get my mum to call her when the baby was born...but she keeps calling..thank god for caller id!!
I am worried that she is getting a little bit obsessive..but dont want to tell her to back off becuase i know it must be tough for her not being able to have babies... but it feels like she is living her pregnancy through me..
God i feel so mean by ignoring her.. but i could have screamed this morning!!
This is abit long..and dunno why i am putting it on here..but you ladies are so understanding and its nice to talk to someone out the situation.
My auntie is coming up for 50 and has now decided she wants babies.. but has found out she cannot have them so has been told she can only adopt..i feel so so sorry for her but also think leaving it till 50 is a bit late ..but guess thats up to her...
Since she found out i was pregnant she has not left me alone, i have never been close with her..just spoke to her at family things.. or christmas etc.. but she has been offering to pay for ostepath sessions for me as she believes they help pregnancy and the baby.. she had a go at me cos i not 100% sure yet if i am going to breastfeed and told me i was hindering my babies development, now getitng so close to my due date she is calling 3/4 times a day... sending me facebook messages...
I went out this morning and left my facebook on..i had 5 messages from her saying...
"where are u?"
"why are u not answering your home phone?"
"Are u in labour?"
"How are u today?"
" Hows baby?"
I actuallly spoke to her yesterday and told her there had been no changes and would get my mum to call her when the baby was born...but she keeps calling..thank god for caller id!!
I am worried that she is getting a little bit obsessive..but dont want to tell her to back off becuase i know it must be tough for her not being able to have babies... but it feels like she is living her pregnancy through me..
God i feel so mean by ignoring her.. but i could have screamed this morning!!