I finally told my boyfriend

Discussion in 'Pregnancy - First Trimester' started by NatashaZ, Jan 30, 2011.

  1. NatashaZ

    NatashaZ Well-Known Member

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    Hello everyone,

    I posted a few days ago about the struggles I'm having with my BF, being pregnant with little family/support, etc. Well, I told my boyfriend last night that I am pregnant. I started by apologizing for being so distant the past few weeks, and telling him I needed his support and understanding for what I was about to say, and... I told him. His reaction was so much more loving and kind and understanding than I imagined it would be. He hugged me and told me it is not a bad thing, just an unplanned one, and that we would figure it out together. We spent the rest of the night talking and eating good food and overall just having a nice time together.

    It was very nice to experience good feelings with someone in regards to this pregnancy because I really was expecting everyone close to me to just be so disappointed and upset. But I don't feel as alone anymore :)

    Thanks for the support, ladies. I would not have been able to clear my mind and focus on what to say had I not had so many comforting words from you all this week :)
     
  2. MrsKnapp

    MrsKnapp Teeny bit preggers!!

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    That is GREAT news!!
    Its so nice to hear about a guy who can feel good about this sort of thing, its so easy for men to run and hide. Its so nice to see a guy standing up to his responsiblities!!

    GL with your pregnancy.
    H&H 9 months xxxx
     
  3. CharlieKeys

    CharlieKeys Well-Known Member

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    I'm glad he took it so well!! :) now enjoy the rest of your pregnancy together and don't worry about anyone else!
     
  4. mummyto3

    mummyto3 3 gorgeos kids

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    aw that wonderfull news darling x
     
  5. Hevalouaddict

    Hevalouaddict Mama to 3 beautiful babas

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    well you got a better reaction than me. I didn't know till 12weeks and i was mc'ing but i had my second twin still living. When i told him it was like hell had opened he was leaving, he wouldnt talk to me, he pushed me away then when i mc'd the second twin he was caring and a bit upset. I think it was just bravado at first thinking everything was fine then when we lost i think it hit him hard. Im glad your bf has been supportive and i hope you both enjoy the pregnancy
     
  6. Braven05

    Braven05 Mommy to Avery <3

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    Awww what good news...sounds like a stand up guy...glad you have some support there even if you don't have it from family members (an aunt if I remember correctly). Maybe this will make things with your family easier, having the support of your BF.
     
  7. Mollykins

    Mollykins Well-Known Member

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    That's so lovely sweets! :hugs: So happy for you! Congratulations on your pregnancy love and I hope you have a very happy and healthy nine months.
     
  8. Weeplin

    Weeplin Proud mummy :)

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    That's really awesome! I'm really pleased for you x
     
  9. kimbotrav

    kimbotrav Well-Known Member

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    thats great congratulations :) xxxxx
     
  10. Mummy~L

    Mummy~L Mummy to 2

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    Glad he was supportive for you xx
     
  11. WinterSnow

    WinterSnow Well-Known Member

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    i think that is so nice to hear... we are worrying about so many other things already - his support and a good conversation is a great thing!
     
  12. Newt

    Newt tiny amphibious salamanda

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    :happydance: great news :hugs:
     
  13. NatashaZ

    NatashaZ Well-Known Member

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    Thank you everyone. It is a relief. I hope the conversation with my aunt goes well, too. I am not telling her until after my next doc appointment.
     
  14. LadyRoy

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    Really pleased for you both :) - hope you enjoy your little bundle of joy :hugs:
     

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