:'( I guess im done

[PubMissus]

I am so sorry. xx

 

[Belle280601]

I'm so so sorry thinking of you xxx

 

[ale]

I am so sorry :'( I hope you find answers soon and you get to having a healthy pregnancy!

 

[cathgibbs]

Oh hun I'm so sorry xxxx

 

[Breeelizabeth]

I'm so sorry sending hugs your way xx

 

[londongirl]

MMC 3 for me aswell... i just feel like i cant trust my body.. it has never shown me that ive lost my baby..not a single sign im sorry for your loss I wouldnt wish this pain on anyone

I'm so so so so so sad and sorry to read this And the MMC are the worst as you assume all is ok and it's the most gut-wrenching shock to find found out things aren't ok.

 

[Literati_Love]

I am so very sorry for your loss (and other two as well)!

I hope your dr will send you to a specialist at this point and run some tests etc.

Just as an encouraging story, but I know someone who had 3 losses (all 8 weeks or later) and was actually at her specialist appointment to find out what was wrong when they actually discovered she was pregnant again with her now healthy two year old! There are happy stories everywhere even after losses, and I so hope for one for you next time. Hugs!!

 

[Xokittycatxo]

I'm so heartbroken for you sweetie. Hang in there

 

[Isme]

I'm so sorry for your loss.

 

[Myshelsong]

There are no words, I am so sorry for your loss Hun, my heart is broken for you.i pray your doctors will find an answer to why this is happening.

 

[May55]

I took the medication lastnight... i think of the 3 times this was the most painful.. It was exactly like labour with my son without the pressure of the baby comming down. 6 hours of unbearable pain, i just couldnt stop moving but couldnt stand straight, it was horrible. At 3am I had a hot bath and finally was able to get out of a ball and at 4 am i was able to sleep. 6am I woke to a gush of water, and at 6:30 am i passed my tiny baby... my little baby...i feel like im dreaming. Theres no way this happened againnnn...I had a baby why cant my body just do it again.. I feel so fkn empty.

 

[lemsz]

I am so so sorry, the trauma of going through the loss vs d&c is so different, ofcourse d&c is its own pain, but the bleeding, cramps and passing of the fetus is so similar to labour it hurts and hurts. I wish you so much love and comfort right now. Just so you know my friend just had her third after about 9 miscarriages. She has been pregnant about 12 times. There is hope, see a recurrent miscarriage specialist. but first take time to grieve . hugs mama

 

[Moom7900]

Sending you so many hugs xxxxxxxxx

 

[mumlol]

praying for you xx

 

[Sweetkat]

So sorry you had to go through it. With my natural losses (2) I never looked at what I passed as I didn't want to see. My loss at 8&3 was awful with a lot of bleeding and clots.

This time I had a D&C and while I fee horrible, at least no horrible bleeding. I was 10&4 so was really worried about needing to go to A&E

Will you try again or see a recurrent miscarriage specialist?

I am torn re what to do next

Huge hugs xxx

 

[May55]

Unfortunaly because my miscarriages were not three in a row they dont consider it recurrent :/..i had my first miscarriage, then we had our son, then 2 since him.. The doctor has sent a request for me to see someone and get a few genetic tests done but thinks its just bad luck.. I also have PCOS... thats what kills me, it took 15 months for us to get here.. 15 months and now 2 losses, it could be over a year of waiitng again even if i did decide to try right away... im just defeated

 

[sunflower82]

I'm sorry I also suffered my third loss two weeks ago

 

[lucy_x]

This is so horrible to see, I'm so very gutted for you

All my love x x x