I hate facebook :(

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  1. meltanton

    meltanton Mum of1,2angels&expecting

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    Boho. Another friends pregnancy announcement and scan photo as i log on...... thats 7 of my friends due this year now! when will it be our turn :( xx
     
  2. sanjalica

    sanjalica Member

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    I hear ya. It's a horrible feeling. On the one hand you're happy for your friends and all but at the same time... it hurts. I've actually deleted my facebook account (well de-activated it) because of this stuff. I figure right now in my life I just don't need that kind of added stress. I made the decision after I went online one night and found that a girl I went to highschool with (that is a complete pot-head, in a bad relationship, already has one 2 year old that might be autistic, not working) is pregnant again. Oh and then another girl I went to highschool with who is a complete pot-head and has actually smoked herself stupid and bf is a druggy/alcoholic, both living on welfare and her mother... oh they're pregnant too and found out they were having a boy because they were high/drunk and having sex so hard she started to bleed so they went to emerg and BLAH.

    I don't mean to sound so rude and judgemental so I really do apologize if anyone takes any offense what so ever. It's just hard. I don't understand it. Maybe I'm suppose to be learning something from this. Am I suppose to smoke a joint and relax? Is that maybe what they're doing and I'm not? ha tough chance.
     
  3. meltanton

    meltanton Mum of1,2angels&expecting

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    I know its really unfair isnt it. Thats awfful, how canpeople like that bring a baby in to the world!

    I am happy for my friends, thy are all deserving and are in relationships and one of them is married etc. Its just hard when 90% of them have only been with their OH for a year or two and some havign their 2nd or 3rd babies, or live in rented or with their folks. When me and my DH have waited to try for our 2nd 5 years down the line because we wanted to do it properly this time and have a mortgage be finiancialy stable and be married.Yet now 7 people come out with their pregnancy news. its just so frustrating xx

    Haha yeah i think u got the right idea there.. no smoking joints lol
     
  4. monalisa81

    monalisa81 Well-Known Member

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    This happens to me too. But, you don't know how long those people have been TTC. The things at backyard is always different from the front. Just ignore those posts or try to make your peace with it and think of the time when it'll be your turn.
    Facebook is full of silly things, people only share their best there. Life is not always like that. It's just a game people play and most of them only have an account to show off their good things.
    I miss the times when everyone had more privacy. It's just TMI on there
     
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    yellowbell TTC #2

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    At the moment I have 3 friends on facebook that are pregnant. One puts up scan photos every 5 minutes so there is usually one on when I log in and the other 2 just mention it occassionally. I don't want to sound mean and I am happy for them its just hard to look at all the time. Another friend has just become a granny so she has baby pics posted nearly every day and one of the pregnant girls I went to school with is expecting her 6th.

    A girl I was friends with in high school has just joined facebook but I am reluctant to add her as she has 10 kids!!!! 8 of her own and 2 step kids (she just turned 30)I don't want to sound horrible but its just too hard :(
     
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    iprayforbump Well-Known Member

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    I've hid posts from some of my preggo facebook friends. It makes it bearable to go on facebook!
     
  8. meltanton

    meltanton Mum of1,2angels&expecting

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    i know 4 of my friends were planned and fell in the first month and the other one was a one off accident. My first was a hapy accident. so makes u think...r we doign this ttc thing all wrong lol xxx
     

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