i hate my hubby

[boybump4]

as most of you know im expecting baby boy 5.i have the consultant tomorrow and she should give me an induction date for this week or next. so i just said to my hubby he will actually be here this week or next and he says AND? i said he is actually gonna be here and he blew a raspberry and walked off!!!!! what a twat,he hasnt been happy about this pregnancy right for the start.he as only been to one scan and nothing else.im so upset by tonights reaction i dont know what to do??? i may as well go in and give birth alone,im so hurt right now
what an insensitve horrible bxxxxxd

 

[chezziepie]

OMG I'm so sorry

 

[rachy12342]

What a dick, I don't know what to say :/ x

 

[Skippy54]

Oh Hun, maybe he's just not being enthusiastic about the pregnancy, cause he's a man? I love my OH to bits but he's shit when it comes to my pregnancy! I've been in and out of hospital and he's sat at home. He's never enthusiastic when the baby moves or kicks, like tonight the baby has hiccups and he never looked away from the tv
He even suggested he takes a trip up to see his 2 other chilldren 170 miles away the week I'm due!!!!!!! but he always tells me he can't wait for the little one to arrive.

 

[RoxyRoo]

I'm sorry he's being this way

Hopefully once he sees his baby his attitude will change x

 

[JackiePed]

...blew...a raspberry? Are you sure this isn't him kidding around? Most adults don't 'blow raspberries' when they are honestly being jerks.
As far as being excited or involved, I think it's pretty normal for men not to be all that interested until the baby is actually here. Mine only comes to the main 20 wk scan, and then comes to the hospital when we go into labor. He still loves me and those babies tons....
Perhaps he's just not an excitable guy over pregnancy stuff?

 

[Gems89]

Awww sorry hun, hope these *hugs* help! xxx

 

[eve123]

so sorry to hear that, i'm with Rachy, he's a dick!

 

[Catwiffy]

Sorry he's being such a tit! Hope you're ok, big hugs xx

 

[Kasia]

That's pretty insensitive of him, although I agree with other ladies, men are strange. Mine has not been excited at all he's scared if anything Has not felt the baby move or anything & has only been to couple scans. It's upsetting & I sure hope things get better once the baby is here

 

[Kimmi82]

I saw this on fb hun and it shocked me so much has he been like that with all the babies? My hubby is the total opposite, he adores feeling the bump and says all the time that he cant wait to meet his daughter, he can be a bit annoying and clueless sometimes tho!

 

[boybump4]

I saw this on fb hun and it shocked me so much has he been like that with all the babies? My hubby is the total opposite, he adores feeling the bump and says all the time that he cant wait to meet his daughter, he can be a bit annoying and clueless sometimes tho!

no he has been so fab and supportive with all the other pregnancies and births.it gets me down because he is an amazing person and an amazing dad,i cant really fault him apart from this pregnancy.my last birth was so traumatic i think he could be really really scared.i also think he is worried how we will cope,mentally because all my boys are young and it can be hard work sometimes.xxx

 

[Kimmi82]

Men are not great at communicating their feelings, youre probably right, but you think hed be able to be honest with you if he was. I hope once bubs arrives it all changes, infact im pretty sure it will

 

[v2007]

Thats awful.



V xxx

 

[Serendipity40]

they are different creatures to us at times arent they...i am sure he was just havin off day that day & is of course worried about how a 5th child will affect familylife..but sure he will get in swing of things again once babs arrives...

i would so of loved my hubby to have kissed my bump during this pregnancy but he has hardly paid it any notice..but my DS kisses it every so often & that more than makes up for hubbies lack of interest...

 

[ahcigar1]

What a prick. I'm so sorry hun. Hopefully once he sees and holds LO his attitude will change.

 

[Mazzy]

Don't feel too bad...My brother didn't want any more children after his third, but his wife was so insistent, he gave in to her...but when he did, he basically told her that she had to deal with the late night feedings and all the changings herself, etc. because he was over it. Basically, he was going to be hands-off after he donated his sperm. Personally, I think that's totally unfair to the baby. Hey, you do the dance, you pay the price is my opinion. Or just be a man and don't give in. On her side, seems pretty dumb to want to have a baby with someone if he doesn't return the need.

But, then there's my husband who is weirded out by anything bodily-related. This is his first/only baby, and I have to constantly point out when my bump moves and tell him he needs to talk to the bump so LO gets used to his voice etc., but he's squeemish about the whole moving bump thing. I think he's excited about the baby, but weirded out by the pregnancy so it may seem like he's not interested. I guess it's hard to understand when you're body hasn't been hijacked by a little being.