I was originally planning to have my baby shower in March since I'm due in May. I figured that'd be far enough along and give me time to get whatever last minute things I needed or that I didn't get at the shower. We're having it in the conference room of the hotel my Mom works at due to convenience and costs (she gets a great discount) but we found out today that they're going to be under renovation several months next year which means I'll have to have the shower at the end of January. I know it's not a huge deal but I feel awkward about it. I'll be 25-26 weeks along. I guess my biggest reason is because a friend/co-worker of mine keeps telling me I'm trying to rush it. I wanted to get my crib set up early on just because we're sharing a room with the baby and I wanted it up to get used to how I'm rearranging our room, use it to store the various baby things I acquire, etc. I still don't have it set up and I'm ok with that but when I mentioned wanting it, she whined that I was rushing things. I found out when my ultrasound is (Dec 15th, I'll be 19 weeks along) and I told her about it and she whined again that I'm rushing things. I'm not sure how since that's a very appropriate time to get that ultrasound and my doctor told me to schedule it but still. I'm just worried about people reacting negatively to me having it so early. Anyone else have it early (or planning to have it early)? I just want to make sure I'm not alone here hahaha. This leaves me 10 weeks to book and plan it. That's not too bad of a time frame but Christmas is right in the mix. I don't know. I'm probably just crazy and over-thinking haha.