I just don't like people anymore. Rant, Kinda.

[xAmiixLouisex]

I'm so sick of people intruding on my s**t. Basically, me and FOB aren't together. It was kind of a one night thing. We went to the same school, live in the same area, know all the same people. Everyone knows he's my baby's dad. Although I've heard some comments that he isn't. (I had a bit of a reputation when I was younger, it's well behind me but some people will always be assholes).

When I got pregnant, I received so much negativity. Because FOB didn't want my baby, he wasn't ready, we wasn't together, blah blah. I decided I'm not feeding people the gossip they crave so I just cut off contact with a whole bunch of people. I had suspicions about my friend Sam. She was a good friend, but then I realised she got very close to FOB's ex girlfriend. His ex hates me, although they split up years ago she's gave me nothing but abuse via facebook and email etc. I know who this girl is, never been friends with her but she has a huge issue with me being pregnant by him. I think, this may be because she aborted his baby a few years ago. From what I've heard, he pressured her into it and she was pretty upset over it.

Anyway, After finding out how close her and my friend Sam were I sent Sam a message. Tellin her I'll no longer be in contact with her because I can't trust that information isn't getting passed on where I don't want it to be. She messaged me promising she hadn't told anyone any of my personal business and she would never, she was really upset with my message. So, I decided to give her the benefit of the doubt and stayed friends with her. But remained distant.

Today I get a request on blackberry off a girl I was friends with years ago. Sam's close with her and she's asked me a few times if we talk, I said no because I don't trust her and she's a gossip. Which is true, this girl went on like she was a good friend and continued to tell people personal things about me AND started a few untrue rumours. I asked the girl where she got my pin and she said Sam gave it her. Why would she do this? Knowing how much of a private person I am these days. Then, if that's not bad enough. I get a request off FOB's ex girlfriend! Which I instantly declined.

I'm so annoyed. I've kept a low profile for around 5/6 months now. Why are people still trying to get involved in my life? I wouldn't mind if these people actually cared. But instantly when someone gets in contact, they'll ask about my pregnancy then straight onto FOB trying to find out what's going on with him etc. It's all just for gossip. Everyone round here wants to be in the know and spend most of their lives judging other people, laughing at their downfalls and generally bitching! I wish I could teleport to a nice house in the country.

 

[jenniferttc1]

ahh people just love to get into other peoples business. Sounds like the ex is just jealous. If it was me, I would just show everyone how well you are doing, and how perfect eveything is. But thats just me, and how I react to things. I'm more of a rub it in your face kinda girl lol

 

[puggyflump]

People always love to gossip and cause trouble, i personally think it's to make their sad lives more interesting, but at the end of the day your life is none of their business!!!
You know that you're doing the right thing for you and you're little one so you should be proud of yourself and try and ignore them

 

[Mummy_to_be87]

It sounds like your FOBs ex is jealous and you are doing something she had an option to do and didnt but that isnt your problem, you are doing whats right for you and your LO! Keep yourself to yourself and ignore all the gossip, they must have real crappy lives they have to impose on yours! I have cut a lot of people off that only seem interested in my LO, they didnt bother with me for years and now Im nearly popping with my LO they are in there trying to get close but I wont let them! You are doing a wonderful job and dont need these people in your life, you know who your true friends and family are, just stay close to them! x

 

[mrs.amillian]

I agree with the other posters, your gonna be a great Mum, already are in fact and have a supportive family. You don't need those idiots!

Not compairing you to the people on Jeremy Kyle, but seriously have you ever watched it?? It's all heresay and rumors, people sticking their noses where they don't belong and causing trouble.


This only stops when someone strong, like you, can say NO, and refuse to engage them and listen.

People love drama and will cause it wherever they can, refuse to allow them to bring you down to their level.

You know your better than that!