I just need to vent!

[bluidgrl87]

i have always tried to be a positive person, and i don't really like being around negative people but i just really need to vent! I don't think its fair how we could all be patiently waiting for our one chance to have all of our dreams come true.
We get poked and prodded and take pills and spend countless amounts of money on any thing that gives us the slightest bit of hope!

Then there is women out there who don't even want children or cant appreciate the gift from god when they are blessed with one at the drop of a hat....

now don't get me wrong i don't mean the woman who just get pregnant easily i mean the woman who are reckless and have like 10 baby daddy's and could care less about their children or the woman who just go out and are not using protection and just get IT "TAKEN CARE OF" if it does happen just because they don't wanna deal with it! when they should have been more careful and responsible with their actions.

it just aggravates me and shakes my faith a little but, thanks for listening or reading i hope i didn't offend anyone!

 

[Mrs.Craig]

oh honey! THANKS FOR POSTING! i know how you feel! ughhh. it sucks. i have a couple friends, werent trying, not in stable, commited or existing relationship and BAM! they get pregnant. it makes me sooo mad. dont get me wrong, im happy they are not "taking care of it" in the negative sense but they didnt even want it. although i havent been trying that long it still sucks that they are. as well as, these mother who dont have their kids half the time or smoke and drink while pregnant!

 

[bluidgrl87]

Thanks for understanding Me and my best friend started trying around the same time. me a little before her and for my first! her a couple months after me for her second and she now has her second and she will be 3 months in a week while im still trying for my first...im so happy for her and im in love with both her kids and was there for the birth but cant help to get upset that my body still wont let it happen!

 

[Mrs.Craig]

i defintitely understand. every time AF comes, i think about all my friends with kiddos or are preggers and just get upset. not really at them just at my body for not gettin with the program! haha. ill have FX for BFP for us! feel better sweetie.

 

[Moondance]

I definitely understand this one.

I have a best friend, who has a long time friend, Kay.... Kay is only 17 and she and her boyfriend decided they wanted to get pregnant. First month, they nailed it, she got pregnant. She was 2 months pregnant, they got into an argument so she went and aborted her baby.
I wanted to strangle her. My DP and I been trying for 20 months now and nothing.

 

[bluidgrl87]

I definitely understand this one.

I have a best friend, who has a long time friend, Kay.... Kay is only 17 and she and her boyfriend decided they wanted to get pregnant. First month, they nailed it, she got pregnant. She was 2 months pregnant, they got into an argument so she went and aborted her baby.
I wanted to strangle her. My DP and I been trying for 20 months now and nothing.

Omgoodness thats so sad and not fair, they deliberately planned and then aborted so sad! One of my ex friends dated a really good friend of mine and then got pregnant and didnt want to tell him so she aborted the pregnancy and knowing how i felt about the subject pleeded with me to be there in the room with her while it was done for support! she was my best friend thats the only reason i went with her!

 

[kel3639]

My best friend had me do the same thing! I'm pretty sure I cried more than her and she had the nerve to blame me for her getting pregnant because she has no car and expected me to always get her birth control!!

 

[bluidgrl87]

wth man thats not right....you didn't make her have sex....i believe that if you think your responsible enough to have sex than your responsible to handle what comes with it! my sister was on the phone with me a mother of 4 begging her to let her adopt the child instead of abort!

 

[kel3639]

I was doing the same for her! that was a long time ago tho and she already had a daughter from the same guy who had 2 other girls pregnant!!

 

[taylorxx]

I agree with you so much!! It's sad

 

[bluidgrl87]

ugh some people man i swear if it was harder for people to get pregnant like us then they would appreciate and understand what a gift a child is! Their not a toy they are not something you can just through away. When are people gonna understand its a life and they can not play GOD!

 

[kel3639]

ugh some people man i swear if it was harder for people to get pregnant like us then they would appreciate and understand what a gift a child is! Their not a toy they are not something you can just through away. When are people gonna understand its a life and they can not play GOD!

I couldn't agree more!! some people have so many kids and don't care. I just want ONE

 

[JessPape]

adoption can sometimes be harder than abortion I hate to say it. But not everyone that is aborting bad. I think depending on the person that really is the responsible thing to do. You can portect all u want it may still happen, if ur not ready, ur not ready. Not everyone can carry a baby to term, thats all I will say.

However, people that refuse to us no portection, don't want kids, and are irresponsible make me sick!