I just want to know why.

[angelmommy13]

Out of everything in this world, I just want to know what caused my miscarriage. Was it because I did not know I was pregnant beforehand and that I needed prenatal care, which should've happened before I found out? Should I have went in sooner? Why didn't I test any sooner? I hate that I don't know what caused it. I hate that my nurse was a bitch. I hate it!! My baby would've been 1 years old on 10/21, instead, it spent its first birthday in Heaven instead of with me Why can't I know? I just want to know. RIP Peanut

 

[Andypanda6570]

I know exactly how you feel .I am so very sorry for your loss

I lost my Ava at 22 weeks, I gave birth to her in my home.. They did test her for things, but the tests didn't give any further info. So I guess I blame it on being 40 and getting pregnant by accident.

At the time my boys were 20 , 18 and 12 and we were definitely done. 12 years no babies and then BOOM I get pregnant and with a girl.. Then I loose her and almost myself..I am much better now, but I have been to hell and back with this grief..I wanna know why too, why was she taken, but I don't blame myself and you shouldn't either.. It's just a terrible thing that happened to us.. Things get easier, but it takes time..Ava will be gone 4 years in March..I don't know how 4 years has come and gone so fast..I am here if you ever need to talk.. xoOOox Andrea

 

[angelmommy13]

I know exactly how you feel .I am so very sorry for your loss

I lost my Ava at 22 weeks, I gave birth to her in my home.. They did test her for things, but the tests didn't give any further info. So I guess I blame it on being 40 and getting pregnant by accident.

At the time my boys were 20 , 18 and 12 and we were definitely done. 12 years no babies and then BOOM I get pregnant and with a girl.. Then I loose her and almost myself..I am much better now, but I have been to hell and back with this grief..I wanna know why too, why was she taken, but I don't blame myself and you shouldn't either.. It's just a terrible thing that happened to us.. Things get easier, but it takes time..Ava will be gone 4 years in March..I don't know how 4 years has come and gone so fast..I am here if you ever need to talk.. xoOOox Andrea

Thank you very much!
It happened so fast, I could cry. I still remember that appointment like it was yesterday, the nurse was VERY IGNORANT!!
I had no u/s, I was pissed. (excuse the language.)
I felt like she'd lied to me about the urine sample (I know it wasn't a lie!), but I'd just gotten a 3 days earlier, why am I getting a ??
I still question that to myself every day.
Why was the urine sample negative?
I also had no blood work done, so I don't know what could've caused my miscarriage.