I know you are all probably sick of the sight of me by now but

[NetsaBaba]

I know it may seem i post a topic every 5 secs and im sorry about that but
I need to moan and rant to someone.
I have a heavy cold so i cant speak atm, so my brother is no use.

Im really paranoid!
My DH has to go away alot, but i know what he is doing all the time there is never any lying because i would find out, it isnt like he mysteriously vanishes or anything suspicious! But i keep thinking he might be cheating on me, although i really have no reason at all to think this, he worships the ground i walk on and is really perfect but i think its just these pregnancy hormones doing it.

Has anyone else had any paranoia during their pregnancy??
I want to no im NORMAL!

 

[JynxPhD]

I haven't but I know a lot of women on here have. Just relax, I'm sure nothing is going on.

On a side note, are you on rest or off of work? I know in the past when I would worry about something I would distract myself with work. Now that I'm on rest and not working I find myself obsessively worrying about a lot of things. I cannot wait to be able to get off rest and get back to a normal life.

 

[NetsaBaba]

I haven't but I know a lot of women on here have. Just relax, I'm sure nothing is going on.

On a side note, are you on rest or off of work? I know in the past when I would worry about something I would distract myself with work. Now that I'm on rest and not working I find myself obsessively worrying about a lot of things. I cannot wait to be able to get off rest and get back to a normal life.

Im not working atm, im on rest and its killing me. I love my work.
And im sure too, he isnt the type of person to do that. its not my mind that thinks it its just that 'feeling'.
Me and my OH are very similar so i usually know how his mind works so i dont think i have anything to worry about. Im just dying a slow death of boredom really.

 

[JynxPhD]

Yes boredom is killing me too! What type of work did you do before you were put on rest? Are you going back after your babies are here or are you going to be a SAHM?

 

[rowleypolie]

YES! i am completely paranoid but mine is totally horrid to even think about. My neighbor just filed for divorce and restraining orders against her husband whom we all really liked. We were shocked and then come to find out he was molesting their 8 year old daughter. So now because the wound is still fresh i dont trust ANYONE around my precious little girl- sadly not even my husband. He gives me no reason not to trust him its just this friend had no clue her husband was doing it either......

 

[SRTBaby]

YES! i am completely paranoid but mine is totally horrid to even think about. My neighbor just filed for divorce and restraining orders against her husband whom we all really liked. We were shocked and then come to find out he was molesting their 8 year old daughter. So now because the wound is still fresh i dont trust ANYONE around my precious little girl- sadly not even my husband. He gives me no reason not to trust him its just this friend had no clue her husband was doing it either......

Omigod! that is horrible i would kill my dh if he did that to my LO.

 

[rowleypolie]

I know! i dont know why she hasnt killed him- then again the day she found out he was put in military jail- they have strict rules on base- and he doesnt have a chance to get out for 5-8 years which is good!

 

[lushious09]

like you wouldnt believe! it gets really bad at times but ive learnt to try and just ignore it... then i usualy get proven totaly wrong and feel silly lol

 

[Nathyrra]

I get paranoid too, I think it's really normal during pregnancy to feel this way. You're at your most vulnerable, you need your little family more than ever and that coupled with low self esteem is bound to make us all a bit protective of what's 'ours'

My husband is completely anti-cheating. Even watching films with people cheating in it deeply affects him. He hates it! That doesn't stop me from getting paranoid anyway It could be also because we don't have much to do at this stage in pregnancy we all have far too much time on our hands to dwell. x

 

[mama.bear]

hey hun
i feel the same way, a lot... i think part of it is the fact that my OH is away a lot like you *and also like you, i know he would never do anything* and like nathyrra said, our hormones are going and we're at our most vulnerable, wanting our little families to be together (OH home every night.. ah that would be SO sweet... ) and our self-esteem can mess with our head's too... i've been cheated on by every man i've ever been with and whether we like it or not, those experiences can leave a very deep mark on our heart. i do my best to keep positive and not let those fears get to me, it's hard tho i must admit.
you're not alone chickadee! x
i'm home alone alot too, haven't worked since i was just over 20wks, and i KNOW that my being home with not much to do gets me into my head SO much more than when i'm busy or out running around or visiting with friends.. maybe take up a craft or something creative for baba's to help your mind refocus?
sorry to hear you're feeling poorly too rest rest rest as much as you can!
i'm one to talk tho, due on sat and i'm out and about running errands and stuff, have dr's appt soon tho and i'm curious if there have been any changes since last week!
big heading to you!