I lost my baby :(

[starryeye31]

The night before i was suppose to have my first scan I started to have cramps , I took some tylenol and they went away , I got to work and a few hrs later started bleeding bright red blood , I told my team leader what was going on and that I had to go , At that point harldey anyone at work knew I was pregnant and I was afraid to tell her but I knew i had to get to the hospital . I left work , I drove myslef to the hospital , I didnt tell my oh as it was 4am , I didnt want to wake him or worry him , Once getting to the hospital they did an ultrasound , they turned the screen so I couldnt hardley see what was going on , The baby had no heart beat at all and had stoppped growing 2 weeks prior , they did my beta hcg it was low for being as far as I was it was 7550 or something like that , the doc asked if i was sure on my dates and i was . they sent me home with vicodin for the pain and told me to go to my ob appointment still in the morning because id probably have to have a d&c done , but I couldnt go , I just couldnt , that was suppose to be my happy day . I lost alot of blood , and a big blood clot came out but im not so sure everything has passed , the doc said id see white tissue stuff and I havent , im scared , I dont know what to do Im so afraid of getting a d&c done . My oh and I plan to try again as soon as we are able to , so maybe I will see you guys in a few months . good luck to all of you . (Hugz)

 

[Unbridled]

I'm so very sorry for your loss.

 

[luckybreak]

Oh I am so sorry

 

[geckorachel]

I am so so so sorry you are going through this hugs to you and your partner xxxxx

 

[mailcmm]

I am so sorry for your loss.

 

[Wantingbbbump]

I am so sorry for your loss. You should really get seen to make sure that everything has passed.

 

[Mid.night]

I'm so sorry praying for you and oh tonight x

 

[BrandysBabies]

I could have written this myself. I am so sorry for your loss. You will know it when you pass the baby. It is like being in actual labor. I had to do it in the hospital. It was one of the most painful things I have ever been through. They gave me morphine and vicodin and it didnt even touch the pain. I am sure every woman is different, but being around the same stage I would assume that it would be similar. I am not trying to scare you, sorry if I did. I just want you to be prepared. Again, I am so so sorry for your loss!

 

[mrssat]

i am so sorry hun, be strong and support each other x x x

 

[bellahoney]

So sorry to hear that. Prayers for you and family

 

[stickylizard]

This is so sad, it's heartbreaking. I'm so sorry to read this. You are amazingly strong to look ahead to the future. Some babies are just too good for this world xxx

 

[yumosh]

I'm so sorry. I pray you will get through this and be stronger for it. There aren't exact words to comfort. X

 

[ls318]

I am so sorry for your loss, If you wind up needing a D&C they are not horrible. I had to have one this past May due to a loss. You'll most likely be physically fine the very next day or two; however, emotionally you'll be (or I was) a mess for awhile. Sending prayers of comfort and healing your way.

 

[LilianA]

I'm sooo sorry hun I wish there was something we could do to make it easier for you. I really think you need to go to the doctor and make sure you are ok and you don't need a D&C.

 

[sequeena]

I am so very sorry

 

[jenniferttc1]

Oh no, im so very sorry hunny

 

[TxMom2Be]

Sorry for your loss. Hugs to you and your family!

 

[VeryHopeful]

I'm so sorry...

 

[NewMama2012]

So sorry hun. =(

 

[jenp86]

Im so sorry for your loss and for what you're going through

I had a natural miscarriage in July and it is the most emotional thing I have gone through. If you ever need someone to talk to please don't hesitate to send me a private msg.