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[EmilieBrianne]

Please keep us posted... We're pulling for you. And if its a neg... have more fun with the partner maybe get a hotel room or a small vacay in a different town. Youll be surprised how the different surroundings can help.

Okay I will. My temp is still up but I am really cramping though.

 

[Lucy529]

Emilie,

I was told as a teenager that I would never have kids. I then had 3 miscarriages. While they were terrible, I thought that well if I'm conceiving maybe I just need to figure out why I cant hold it.

I was also told at my last miscarriage that I would never have children, and on top of that, to never try because of my melanoma. It really almost broke my marriage. Sometimes these doctors are sick sick careless people.

Never give up hope! It is an emotional roller coaster, but its just a test of patience. I was married for 5 years before our first, and it wasn't until I just gave up and decided to just enjoy my life with my husband that we were pleasantly surprised by my pregnancy.

Of course, going to the Dr at that time was also stressful. Can you believe that I actually had one Dr. tell me in my 27th week that my baby will be born with cancer because of my history with melanoma? Unbelievable.

Keep your head up, and never lose hope. Enjoy your life, be healthy and active and it'll happen some day.

Hope that helped

Wow I wonder if that dr is not related to the one I got when I first went to the specialist.

I have just the one tube and ovary I had an ectopic in the tube and was told by the dr that if I ever did conceive it would more than likely be an other ectopic.

I was able to conceive and like you it happened once I had decided to concentrate on myself I lost 30lbs and was going hard to get to a good weight when I was happily surprised to find out I was pregnant but had to see a specialist bc of other health issues the first dr I saw told me that my son would more than likely be still born a and i should of never gotten pregnant. I had nightmares for weeks it scared me to even buy clothes or any other baby item luckily she quit not long after and the dr after her reassured me that everything would be fine.

My son will soon be 10 months old yes he was born premature but healthy

Miracles happen all the time

 

[Lucy529]

Please keep us posted... We're pulling for you. And if its a neg... have more fun with the partner maybe get a hotel room or a small vacay in a different town. Youll be surprised how the different surroundings can help.

Okay I will. My temp is still up but I am really cramping though.

Could be implantation cramps FX

 

[EmilieBrianne]

Please keep us posted... We're pulling for you. And if its a neg... have more fun with the partner maybe get a hotel room or a small vacay in a different town. Youll be surprised how the different surroundings can help.

Okay I will. My temp is still up but I am really cramping though.

Could be implantation cramps FX

I am pretty sure it isn't implantation since the cramps have been 24/7 for 3 days and that I already had a positive tests 4 days ago but now my tests are negative so I am pretty sure this a chemical but I have no spotting and af hasn't started and my temps are still up and pretty high. Higher than normal. So I don't know.

 

[Lucy529]

Keeping my FX