but it will be a hard 5/6 months for me. some of you know im to be bridesmaid in late spring for my SIL and ive been ttc No3 since january, well OH has said we need to stop now til after december due to SIL wedding to do with his family etc. i know im being a bit selfish but i had to wait 2 years for OH to come round to the idea of a 3rd child and ive had a tough 9 months so far. so now things are on hold again. im thinking of just not bothering at all now there a constantly things halting us ttc. sorry its not a question jus a bit of a rant.