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I'm looking for positive stories of mamas who've gone on to have real, live babies after miscarriage.
I had a MMC with D&C in October. We were very blessed in that I got pregnant my first cycle after that, but I'm beyond terrified that this pregnancy will also end without a baby in my arms. I can't seem to relax or be excited no matter how hard I try- I'm constantly waiting for bleeding (although I didn't bleed with mine) or loss of symptoms (which is what clued me in that something was wrong) even though it's so early (4 weeks +2) that I don't even HAVE a lot of symptoms yet- and on the other hand, every little cramp and twinge (normal for this stage!) fills me with dread.
I'm worried that, if I do carry this baby to term, our bonding will be negatively affected- I loved my angel from the second I saw another line, and I'm avoiding any kind of attachment like the plague this time. I really would love to just enjoy this pregnancy and not constantly feel like I'm waiting for the other foot to drop.
So, please.....share with me the stories of your rainbow pregnancies and your beautiful babies that you took home! Very much needed and appreciated, mamas!
I had a MMC with D&C in October. We were very blessed in that I got pregnant my first cycle after that, but I'm beyond terrified that this pregnancy will also end without a baby in my arms. I can't seem to relax or be excited no matter how hard I try- I'm constantly waiting for bleeding (although I didn't bleed with mine) or loss of symptoms (which is what clued me in that something was wrong) even though it's so early (4 weeks +2) that I don't even HAVE a lot of symptoms yet- and on the other hand, every little cramp and twinge (normal for this stage!) fills me with dread.
I'm worried that, if I do carry this baby to term, our bonding will be negatively affected- I loved my angel from the second I saw another line, and I'm avoiding any kind of attachment like the plague this time. I really would love to just enjoy this pregnancy and not constantly feel like I'm waiting for the other foot to drop.
So, please.....share with me the stories of your rainbow pregnancies and your beautiful babies that you took home! Very much needed and appreciated, mamas!