I think my OH is going to cut me off until LO is born:(

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So after a somewhat unsuccessful sexy time last night, I think we are done until LO gets here. OMG does that suck! Its just getting really awkward for him, since he can feel her move around every day, its hard for him to forget about it when its sexy time. :cry:

I don't know how I am going to get through the next 19 weeks :cry:

Anyone else having this issue?
 
I had the same issue! It seems to be once every 2-3 weeks now which kills me!! OH thinks he going to hurt or poke through to baby :haha: lol x
 
He says that's not what bothers him. Its just the fact that his baby girl is "right there" and it makes it hard for him to really enjoy it. Is not a positioning thing or anything like that. Before the last month or so it was a couple times a week, but for some reason, the last couple weeks, my drive has gone WAY down! So we are lucky if it has been once a week.

Also, since I started showing, the only time we seem to DTD is when he's had a few beers, which is getting more seldom now too. He told me last night that he feels like he needs it so he can block her out more easily???

Doesn't make sense to me because I am not a guy.
 
lol with my spd positioning has become so difficult we dont bother anymore lol DH is used to it though
 
has he been more conscious of it since you found out what you were having?
 
I think that's really unfair - if you cut him off for 19 weeks I doubt he'd take it too well.
He needs to wise up, the baby isn't aware of whats going on and if anything its good for baby if mama is more relaxed! You getting frustrated and tense over the next 4 months cannot be good!
Maybe need to do some non-penetrative stuff to compromise?
 
I think that's really unfair - if you cut him off for 19 weeks I doubt he'd take it too well.
He needs to wise up, the baby isn't aware of whats going on and if anything its good for baby if mama is more relaxed! You getting frustrated and tense over the next 4 months cannot be good!
Maybe need to do some non-penetrative stuff to compromise?

I think that's the plan. To do other things besides actual intercourse. He know's me well enough that if I was 100% cut off from EVERYTHING, he's been in a bad way. Cause if mama ain't happy, aint nobody happy - as they say! :thumbup:
 
has he been more conscious of it since you found out what you were having?

Yes, and no, I think he would have an issue either way. I think its moreso because she's his baby girl.
 
Maybe u should remind him its not going to be a case of once the baby arrives ul be hopping straight back in the sack... isnt it 2 months after birth that ur meant to wait?
 
just wondered as we have not found out what we are having so i dont think it is a son or daughter in hubbys eyes.
you should threaten him with however he holds off for before baby is here you will make sure you hold off for at least that long after. he might change his mind.
or if you just want to be mean just explain that he is no way big enough to disturb the baby
 
Think it's 4-6 weeks depending on what state your bits are left in!
 
Maybe u should remind him its not going to be a case of once the baby arrives ul be hopping straight back in the sack... isnt it 2 months after birth that ur meant to wait?

I think 6 weeks time is the normal, however I believe that if I feel up to it before (don't get me wrong, It wont be like a week or two after or anything) then I am going to do it! I did it before and had no issues.

He knows about the waiting period. I hope he realizes it would be able 5 months total of no DTD.

Hopefully he can get creative in other ways :thumbup:
 
we had a scare at 10 weeks and even now..like...17 weeks later..hubby is still worried about hurting her... I havent even asked if it weirds him out about here being right there..because Im afraid it might bring it to his attention and then he WILL be weirded out even if he wasnt before lol....Im just waiting for the day that we are messing around and she kicks him or something..I think that will be the end of it lol lol...
 
lol we have not had sex since conception which was february - we are both looking forward to our special night again - but after baby is born - i just can't bear the thought of all of that going on whilst bubba is there - I feel kinda embarrassed lol xxxx
 
So that'll be ten months or so with none at all hellywelly?! Wow, I'd go nuts after ten days normally! :blush:

I realise once baby is here it could mean longer gaps due to tiredness but we'll struggle through somehow :haha:
 
we had a scare at 10 weeks and even now..like...17 weeks later..hubby is still worried about hurting her... I havent even asked if it weirds him out about here being right there..because Im afraid it might bring it to his attention and then he WILL be weirded out even if he wasnt before lol....Im just waiting for the day that we are messing around and she kicks him or something..I think that will be the end of it lol lol...

It's funny you say that because last night, that was a thought that crossed my mind, what if she kicks him?:nope:
 
lol we have not had sex since conception which was february - we are both looking forward to our special night again - but after baby is born - i just can't bear the thought of all of that going on whilst bubba is there - I feel kinda embarrassed lol xxxx

Wow, you are a better woman than I. There is NO WAY I could go that long!:wacko:
 
It's funny you say that because last night, that was a thought that crossed my mind, what if she kicks him?:nope:

yep..I have a feeling that would be the end of it until way after shes here lol lol...I dont even talk about her if I know its going to be sexy time later...just incase...
 
He says that's not what bothers him. Its just the fact that his baby girl is "right there" and it makes it hard for him to really enjoy it.

my husband has said something similar. but he's happy thinking that if he's behind me the baby does not 'see' him so it's fine!! :dohh::haha:
 
haha kosh that's hilarious - and men say women are crazy!
 

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