I wrote him an email,
What do you want?
I told you i would tell you when shes born so leave it at that.
I have no desire to have anymore communication with you as you not only disapointed me yet again but you also seem to have no respect for me. I have asked you for only 2 things in 9 months and you have said yes but not acted upon your answer. You have let me down a grand total of 14 times out of 14.
I do not care about your phone screen, interent connection, lame excuses for not being able to get in touch, for deleting me on FB, or your work commitments, moving house, whatever. Not my problem. I have issues to overcome every day but i dont moan about them to you. Theres no excuse in this day and age to not get in touch with someone. I do not need nor want anything from you so just forget it. Ill text that number i have for you when shes born. you can do whatever you need to do to read it. Dont keep ringing me if i dont answer, i clearly dont want to talk to you. Im in the early stages of labour but it could take days.
man this effacing and dialating buisness hurts